without Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 Staying friends with a guy who is probably never gonna date you, which for some reasons you though he would, but seems he may ,out of nowhere , hates you or hates anyone like you to date? Which you thought he actually liked you ,and he himself had told you that. I know it's stupid just tell me again so maybe I can grow some ***** and never talk to him again. I tried and went NC, and I thought he will never contact me, turns out he did contact me and I answered, seems like he doesn't mind having me as a friend ( or maybe he just called out of curiosity that I haven't contacted him.) But i'm the one who loves him so I'm the one who doesn't feel comfortable being around him. He won't care much. So tell me please! any bad words are welcomed. Tell me i'm an idiot to still be in contact with him. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 You being 'just friends' with him, how does it make you feel? Are you still attracted to him? Can you handle it if he starts to date someone else? Is staying friends with him preventing you from opening your heart to someone else? I think two people can be friends once romantic feelings go away and you get into the mindset of not thinking of that person in that way anymore. If keeping in touch with him is interferring or making you feel bad then don't be friends with him. You don't owe him anything either, so if you choose to disappear, do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author without Posted July 6, 2012 Author Share Posted July 6, 2012 You being 'just friends' with him, how does it make you feel? Are you still attracted to him? Can you handle it if he starts to date someone else? Is staying friends with him preventing you from opening your heart to someone else? I think two people can be friends once romantic feelings go away and you get into the mindset of not thinking of that person in that way anymore. If keeping in touch with him is interferring or making you feel bad then don't be friends with him. You don't owe him anything either, so if you choose to disappear, do it. Yup I still have feelings for him, yes it does prevent it. Yeah I know I should leave him, I thought he's giving me mixed signals, which he was, cuz he said he doesn't wanna date anyone, then after some months he told me if he wants to date anyone it'd be me and a while ago he told me he won't date me his taste has suddenly changed and he prefers "bad girls". anyway, why does he even want to be my friend? You guys just tell me how stupid this was and I can be more determined Link to post Share on other sites
DuchessKaye Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 You guys just tell me how stupid this was and I can be more determined You don't need to stay friends with him. That's stupid! You can tell him NO and you don't want to be friends. You can go back NC and stick with it. The choice is yours 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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