Benedictatu Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 I overheard friends of his talking the other day about him and her and they also said how nice it is that he has such a close relationship with her kids because he always felt he missed out with ours because of me. They said how nice that he thought they were such great kids with such wonderful values and doing so well in life and what a pity ours were such brats who were so self-centred and lacked drive like (kids of other friends who are real no-hopers and will never amount to anything). And how they thought he would probably move close to her kids to be part of their lives and grandchildren when he retires and just sell up here because there's nothing really to keep them here. Our kids are just typical kids always wanting the latest and newest clothes and music and gadgets and we could afford them so why not, that doesn't make them brats, but apparently hers grew up without and that has made them so wonderful they walk on water now and heal the sick and it makes me sick that he thinks they're so great and he can't even bother to make the effort with our own kids when they don't call for months he just leaves them be instead of phoning them every week to check if they need anything or insisting that they come to visit. But he's facebook friends with hers and stays in contact and they chat and share in-jokes I can see because her kids don't lock their profiles anyone can see and it's sad because he doesn't do that with our kids they're not even facebook friends. I am worried that he will leave his house and everything to her kids and not to our kids or even share it between her kids and ours when it's our kids right to expect it because he's their father not her kids and its not right they should benefit just because she stole him away from us. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 This may sound cold, but with an ******* like this, maybe it's better they don't have a good relationship with him. Link to post Share on other sites
goodthingscome Posted July 28, 2012 Share Posted July 28, 2012 Maybe he truly is enjoying being around young people who have values and respect. Who wouldn't. You admit to giving them anything they ever wanted. And you talk about the material items you are worried they are going to get screwed out of. Sounds like they take alot after you? All you are concerned with is "appearances" and material gain. Try to raise your children in a way that they are useful viable human beings, not leeches..... Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyLeigh1967 Posted August 1, 2012 Share Posted August 1, 2012 They are better off if their dad truly feels this way. And yes, stop spoiling your kids. Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 Make sure that you have everything legally locked down so that your kids do get the lions share. Hopefully your kids aren't connected with your ex on Facebook. My kids are brats from the depths of hell. I look at other peoples kids that appear to be well behaved and wonderful and I'm envious, but I'd never trade my demonseed for any of them. Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 Maybe he truly is enjoying being around young people who have values and respect. Who wouldn't. You admit to giving them anything they ever wanted. And you talk about the material items you are worried they are going to get screwed out of. Sounds like they take alot after you? All you are concerned with is "appearances" and material gain. Try to raise your children in a way that they are useful viable human beings, not leeches..... Maybe the dad should have helped raise them better! What kind of crap is this?? Link to post Share on other sites
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