digger Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 21 years together and i hold onto the thot that; if it was meant to be, she'll be back. After 21 yrs how could it not be meant to be? Shes even said to me, "let em go, if they come back its meant to be". Yet not once in 4 months has she contacted me--only me badgering her with emails, etc. How can you grow so stone cold overnight and not have 21 years mean anything? Could this really be meant to be? Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 maybe it was meant to be for awhile. why do we always thionk that one thing is the end all of everything...yes it may feel that way now....maybe for a year or two...i mean for 21 yrs that how it was, so it will take time, not just mnths, to get yourself back to what will be a new normal for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author digger Posted July 7, 2004 Author Share Posted July 7, 2004 AND WHY DO PPL THINK THAT ONCE ITS OVER--ITS REALLY "OVER" Link to post Share on other sites
jazzin7 Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 I would suggest you check out a website called restoreminstries or restorem.org (same thing). Look at the testimonies. I purchased a book from their website with restored marriages, even hopeless marriages, marriages that went through adultery, and even divorces only to get remarried to the same person again. This material gives me HOPE. This website was started by a woman whose husband left her, was in adultery and divorced her. I don't know if you believe in God or not, but this is how God restores marriages. God hates divorce. Believe me when I say we are battling a spiritual battle, not a physical one. Good Luck! EG Link to post Share on other sites
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