Gunny376 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 After a long absence, I'm back here on the forum. Some here may remember, most won't. I'm here to learn from others and their experiences. But rathe than re-active its an attempt to be pro-active. For the first time since my one and only marriage? I'm getting MARRIED again to a wonderful, dear, cherieshed, loved, moving, caring, giving, sensitive...........................(HELP!!!!!!!!! I've ran out agjectives and can't get up! ) Its not a rush job Its been years and years in the making!!!! Certainly not a re-bound relationship. I'll post from time to time. Just wanted to share with those here that remember me! Guns 20 Link to post Share on other sites
reboot Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Welcome back Gunny! Congrats on the impending nuptials! (I hope) Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I sent you a PM like a year ago as I was worried, you just upped and disappeared!! Congrats Gunny! You totally deserve the best. Your wisdom and wonderful advice has helped so many on here..Do update once in a while eh. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I remember you Gunny and congratulations to you both Here have some bouncing rabbits :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Welcome back, Gunny. I remember reading your posts when I first lurked on here a couple of years ago. They contributed to my joining the site. Congratulations on your impending nuptials. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gunny376 Posted July 12, 2012 Author Share Posted July 12, 2012 Welcome back Gunny! Congrats on the impending nuptials! (I hope) I believe we'll make this one wok. We're both being pro-active in it, going into it with both eyes open. We're older, more mature, more experienced, more knowledgebale. We've learned from the past and from our past mistakes. Which is not to say that there's not a lot of work that goes into making ANY relationship work? Just don't EVER want to take her nor our relationship/marriage for granted. I described my "Sack Theory" to her last night and asked her if I had a small sack or a large sack and she told me that I have a large one. I don't have all of the solutions to all of the problems, nor all of the answers to all of the questions? I'm old enough now to know that I never will. I thought I did when I was in my 20's, but then I got to my 30's and realize I didn't. Thought I had it nailed down shut when I wan in my forties but now that I'm in my fifties I've come to realize that I never will. For the time being? I'm just trying to keep it "Real" and keep it all balanced. Keep it in the present, not the past and not so much thought more than necessary in the future. The past is a canceled check, the future t'ain't nothing than a promissary note. TODAY? Is cash in the bank, Baby! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Life's about living. Congrats and welcome back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
trippi1432 Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 All the best to you Gunny, my dear friend. :) Link to post Share on other sites
Crusoe Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 For the first time since my one and only marriage? I'm getting MARRIED again to a wonderful, dear, cherieshed, loved, moving, caring, giving, sensitive........................... Couldn't happen to a better man. Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Great news Gunny! (and welcome back!) Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I remember you Gunny. Sounds like life is good. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted July 13, 2012 Share Posted July 13, 2012 Gunny? Getting Ma ma ma MARRIED!!!???? Is this some sort of rum soaked dream?? :laugh: Big congratulations to you Guns!!!!!!!! Its been a good day today. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted July 13, 2012 Share Posted July 13, 2012 Congratulations Gunny! Link to post Share on other sites
g450 Posted July 13, 2012 Share Posted July 13, 2012 Congrats! I too just got married after being divorced for only two years. Wow that was fast. One thing I found out quick is that a single sucessful middle aged man is in VERY hight demand. Especially as a matramonial prospect LOL. But then I guess I dont have to tell you that right? Here's to another 20 years if I can make it that long! Link to post Share on other sites
threebyfate Posted July 13, 2012 Share Posted July 13, 2012 A million 'grats Gunny!! Also remarried (trialbyfire), one toddler and currently pregnant with our second. When people keep on plugging, good things can and do happen. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted July 15, 2012 Share Posted July 15, 2012 Of course, they remember! Even us pseudo-newbies salute you, man! Bravo! Yas Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted July 15, 2012 Share Posted July 15, 2012 Gunny, I remember you well and can quote some of your posts without even peeking. Congrats to you, this is wonderful news. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted July 15, 2012 Share Posted July 15, 2012 Congratulations Gunny...so nice to hear your good news! Link to post Share on other sites
Darth Vader Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 I was concerned too Gunny, you just dropped off the radar with no trace, glad you're alright! Link to post Share on other sites
worlybear Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 Fantastic news Gunny!:) Many congratulations to you both! Link to post Share on other sites
Patrice Posted August 6, 2012 Share Posted August 6, 2012 Many, many blessings to you Gunny! Good for you! xo Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 how wonderful! Congratulations, Gunny, I wish you and your sweet bride many, many happy years together :love: Link to post Share on other sites
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