Girls Do Cheat

[girls_do_cheat]

I need help......................this ex of mine went for a summer job to a different place and started seeing this guy whom she got attracted to.........we had been in a relationship for about 2 years and she was living in with me......................we had a fight i was not happy with the idea of her hanging out with guys there and then i didn't call her for 3 days 4th day i found out that she went out with this guy for an overnight camping stuff and later she told me that they were in the same bed cuddling and kissing but didn't do anything..................i was furious and helpless at the same time....she told me that she wants to break up and i was like ok......then she came down to my place a week later driving for about 10 hrs, we ended up making love....i told her how she cheated on me and how i am hurt ....she was like i don't want to pity date you and i will not see this guy again and i don't feel the same way i used to feel for you....i was like how could all the feelings go away in just a week and she was like thats how it is right now...............then we decided that we will not remain in touch for a month till she comes back and then we will decide what to do.............but in a day that she goes back she starts calling me and she now regularly keeps calling me...but she wont ever say anything about us she will just talk while she is free and not doing anything and probably needs someone to talk too.....but whenever she has other people to talk to she won't even call...............i am ******* stupid that i answered the calls.....she is now hanging out with different group of guys and practically partying around a lot but i am ****** up in the process.....i just can't work.....my work is suffering and i keep imagining **** that what she might be doing now.............and i am lost as to what should i do...no matter how hard i try i just can't be a guy anymore....................................help.........................she called today and we went into an argument....she was like i don't love you anymore ....i used to love you but not now....i was like so we won't be together again..she was like i don't know.....i am hurt and just feel like kicking her out of my life..but i am helpless.......................help

[Mr messed up]

For some reason or other this girl has got a shot of Nitrus self esteem from somewhere or other? now that stuff only works when there is someone in her life at the end of her phone or whatever that reacts to it in a wuss "your hurting me stop it " kind of way , so don't be that person!!!!! Cut off every sort of contact with her untill she comes back down to earth and grovels to you to help pick up the pieces!!! If she doesn't, then hey, her loss...not yours.

 

Hope this helps mate.

[girls_do_cheat]

I do understant that i do need to cut off the contact, but no matter how hard i try she keeps on calling............she probably wants somebody around to talk to and that somebody usually ends up being me....................today again she called and on telling her what all i did she was like i know you are a nice guy and you have not done anything to deserve this, i was like i don't care if i get you back my world will be fine again, but she was like i don't feel the same.....................she says you were there when i needed you but sometimes people have to be selfish and don't think about others but themselves and that is fine......................should i just stop answering her calls???I just know that i want her back....after a month she is going to be back on campus and then i think i can win her back.....but if i stop calling her at all i might looose her.....everything was triggered because i didn't call her for a few days and i am afraid that i might do it again if i don't call her.........