derrick Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Me and my fiancee broke up about 5 months ago after a 2 year long distance relationship. I'm currently in the Marine Corps and I'm also in Iraq for a few more months. In Feb. I broke things off b/c I got cold feet about the wedding and I was so scared that since we haven't even spent much time physically together being gone all the time. We've probably actually seen each other a total of not even 2 months in 2 years! It's so hard to make it work.. But now a few months later I'm missing her so much.. I'm still deeply in love with her and I realized that I made a huge mistake.. Now she is going out all the time with friends. We still talk and she's told me that she's dated a couple of guys. Just kissing. Not a big deal to me. Not long ago she tells me about going to a concert and the singer flirting with her on their tour bus, but nothing happened. I played that cool, didn't freak out. I'm trying not to act jealous to her.. I want her back more than anything, but I'm now trying a new approach inside of emailing and calling alot, I'm trying to stay away from the phone and email. She still emails me a little.. She's told me she still loves me and I told her the same.. But right when I think I'm talking her into trying things out again, she starts to back off and is like no. She says maybe when you get out of the military..which is almost 2 yrs still..But when I come home in a few months she says maybe we'll talk....I feel like she just wants to keep me in her back pocket while I'm out here. And then she can do whatever she wants with whoever. But I don't want to get used and I still want her back.. I don't know what to do anymore....I'm so confused....I need some serious advice... Thanks, Derrick Link to post Share on other sites
pretty_petal Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 i don't think shes keeping you in her back pocket - u still love one another n can work it out when u get back home. Link to post Share on other sites
derrick231 Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Now I'm a user on this site.. Anyways, my email has been messed up out here in Iraq so I have only been able to use it a little...Well she has emailed me the past few days only saying that she's tried to email me.. Well last night she goes out I'm sure, just b/c after she was done about 2:30am she emailed me and just said goodnight....I know she's been going to this club on Thursdays and I'm sure that's where she was last night...I'm so curious to know what's really going on there.. besides just drinking.. Should I be worried??? It's been about 3 days since we've emailed back and forth or talked on the phone. Do you think I should keep trying not to email her and not calling her?? I'm hoping it will make her miss me more or something. Link to post Share on other sites
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