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Nice!! I mean it worked on a hot chick like yourself, why didn't it work for me last summer? I had this super hottie in my class and we were in a group for a project. I texted her like everyday and we'd text like hour at a time, VERY nice even after I asked her out the first time. She was single too.

Too needy.

 

Last fall I hit on my leader at college. What a leader is basically a fellow student who does orientation with us, and someone to talk to during our first year at school. She was flirty, touchy and we'd like hungout once with a couple other people, but once I started to hit on her, her whole demeanor changed. She like changed her facebook settings, and then blocked me and my friend who she also met at orientation and he liked her too. Anyways I lost that friend because she too also blocked him from facebook as well and he got really mad at me. We were kinda competing over her a little bit.

 

Anyways once day she texted me and told me to go see campus counsling services and to leave her alone!:( She was always friendly, touchy and stuff with me. After that she would ignore my texts. I'd see her in the hall a few times and she'd look at me and I'd just give her mean glance and ignore her.

 

She probably has boundary problems, doesn't know how to act properly, you will learn this later in life.

Her way of reacting to how you acted also shows this.

And if your friend dropped you over this, he was never really a friend anyway.

 

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Oh, and i think USMCHokie is referring to a needy vibe he gets from you, quite frankly i also pictured a 'omg girl, she is different from me, she is soft and such' thing.

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Too needy.

 

Oh, and i think USMCHokie is referring to a needy vibe he gets from you, quite frankly i also pictured a 'omg girl, she is different from me, she is soft and such' thing.

 

Bingo.

 

And I've never actually seen someone type out the word "like" as if they were actually speaking...

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How old are you?

 

I won't say, I'll show u my Facebook if u like and let u guess how old I look if u show me yours. IMO u look about 25. I'm sure guys flock to u when they want to buy a car:laugh:

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Too needy.

 

 

 

She probably has boundary problems, doesn't know how to act properly, you will learn this later in life.

Her way of reacting to how you acted also shows this.

And if your friend dropped you over this, he was never really a friend anyway.

 

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Oh, and i think USMCHokie is referring to a needy vibe he gets from you, quite frankly i also pictured a 'omg girl, she is different from me, she is soft and such' thing.

 

Why do I sound needy?

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My good looking friend has women fawning over him all the time a lot of em are married women..And its not like hes a great guy hes kind of a arrogant borderline narcisistic person but hes good looking so women dont care..

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I'd say too full on is probably more appropriate than needy. I don't know you but from the way you wrote it sounded like you texted that girl.....a lot, so much so that she bluntly told you to leave her alone.

 

However, I have to agree with others. That girl has boundary issues, my ex was like that with her male friends, far worse in fact, and she couldn't understand why they all wanted to date her and why she ended up in the situations she did. Needless to say that relationship was a disaster. You sound, what? early 20s? don't worry pal I was full on like you at that age, I still can be but you learn to tone it down. A good way of doing it is to get completely head ****ed in a relationship, that not only puts you right off women for a considerable period of time but it also teaches you to tone it right down and not rush in so much in future!

 

Which girl?

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Looks are number one to me, and personality comes second. I mean how can you be madly in love with a chick if she's not hot? I always hit on the hottest ones I can. I mean I wanna bone them.

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How's that been working out for ya, champ?

 

still have not got a date yet. Why won't girls go out with me?

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Cracker Jack

Why do you believe they won't go on a date with you? I'm serious. What is it you can do better to improve your success with women?

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I don't know, honestly.

 

You are not as hot to them as they are to you...?

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Hmmm. That kinda gives me an idea. Maybe I need to be more pushy than I have been in the past?

 

I'm lost as to why this site is a collection of instructions and advice from women on what men need to do to change themselves.

 

Why would you EVER change who you are to get a woman to like you?

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miss_jaclynrae
Lets say you saw me somewhere, and I hitted on you, based on what you have seen me post, would you go out with me?

 

:lmao:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

No.

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miss_jaclynrae
Looks are number one to me, and personality comes second. I mean how can you be madly in love with a chick if she's not hot? I always hit on the hottest ones I can. I mean I wanna bone them.

 

OMFG.

 

 

 

Are you freal?!?!

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miss_jaclynrae
Lol. I mean honestly the main reason a guy chases a girl is because he's attracted to her. I'm just attracted to pretty girls. Assuming that is your real photo of you in your avatar that's an example of looks wise of the girls I hit on and want.

 

:sick:

 

 

 

 

 

Please stop. Seriously, no wonder why you haven't gotten laid.

:rolleyes:

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:sick:

 

 

 

 

 

Please stop. Seriously, no wonder why you haven't gotten laid.

:rolleyes:

 

 

If a girl is not honest and gives mixed signals that causes guys to pick up their intensity.

 

 

Jaclyn, you're screwed. :laugh:

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miss_jaclynrae
Jaclyn, you're screwed. :laugh:

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

OMG. You are my favorite.

 

 

 

 

 

WHAT HAVE I DONE!?!? :eek:

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miss_jaclynrae
Yea lol. Besides that pic u just showed me, you look average. The three chicks in my class are way hotter. Friday I go to a party that will have 19 yr olds there. Sure I'll see better

 

I am average, I got a little thickness and I am more than content with it! Good luck at that party, I am sure it will go over swimmingly.

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I am average, I got a little thickness and I am more than content with it! Good luck at that party, I am sure it will go over swimmingly.

 

 

You are above average. By far.

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miss_jaclynrae
You are above average. By far.

 

Thank you, that wasn't supposed to be me fishing though. :laugh:

 

 

 

I think I look good, but I can also accept the fact that I am not every mans type.

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