2 years and im shedding tears

[icyboi123]

So here's the deal me and my girlfriend have been together for two years now everything has been perfect we have never broke up we have never token a break or anything like that. pretty much I could degrade her and she would still kiss my feet I know that's bad to say because I sound like a jerk for saying it I just want to get my point across about how my girlfriend is and the type of person she is. she has never cheated on me and every single time we have to have a argument she always is the one saying baby I love you I miss you or im sorry. so pretty much we always make up and get a long perfect we argue a lot and that really has been in the last three months but she never has mentioned breaking up with me taking a break or anything like that I have never seen her talk to another guy and she never has told me she didn't miss me.

 

For the past month she has been hanging out alot with a new friend and her friend is a junior her name is Stephanie she has been spending the night with her a lot lately and I told her upfront that I didn't want her spending the night over at Stephanie's house because her dad is always out of town and they're always throwing parties so I didn't want to take the risk my girlfriend being the person she is she told me that's totally fine baby I understand and I will only have her spend the night at my house so that was really easy so they started spending the night like a lot and one time like two weeks ago they spent the night three days in a row at my girls house when I was out of town which is totally fine because I couldn't see her anyways so they spent three whole days together and spent three whole nights together.

 

Well I don't like Stephanie the reason I don't like her is because she is so sweet to my girlfriend commenting on all of some of her Facebook photos saying I love you so much best friend you're so beautiful and I'm so happy we're friends and like all types of off-the-wall ****ing **** and she tells my girlfriend that I'm a bad guy or i think she is because of the thing that has just happened and Stephanie's sister says im a bad boyfriend because I used to argue with my girlfriend a lot last year and in seventh period And we had that class with Stephanies sister she said I treat her horrible so she doesn't know why my girlfriend is with me well one day me and my girlfriend were laying in bed and she got a call from Stephanie I said pick it up and she started talking well I heard Stephanie saying stuff and she didn't know I could hear her and she was talking about stuff and then she was like oh yeah and I ask my sister about Like The Way, Trevor acts and like all of her friends say that when a guy is cheating they act the way he does and my girlfriend heard that but she told Stephanie no he's not cheating on me I love him he would never do that to me.

 

 

My girlfriend being the type of girl she is when Stephanie says all this nice stuff to her she eat it up she loves being treated kindly. And me being with my girl for two years arguments do happen between me and her but her and Stephanie is not together with my girl like me and my girlfriend are so they don't argue they're always getting along my girlfriend is not lesbian but I don't know about Stephanie because the way she touches on my girlfriend and talks to her and comments on pictures of her my girlfriend is a really sweet person loving caring and everything for the last two years we pretty much spend every day together I mean there are those times that we didn't but we spent every single day together but she lives like in the same neighborhood as Me so were always hanging out together. we always have sex were always kissing were always on each other and all that stuff before she left we did get in a argument but things seemed totally fine and well before whenever she would get really mad I would always send her like a apology like over text or on the phone and and she would come over and we would discuss it and we would be like brand-neww.

 

I have been a jerk to this girl in my past and I even got caught talking to another girl. the time I got caught talking to another girl she left my ring I gave her, on my fence and I texted her she called me and we met up and worked things out like perfect this happened like maybe may be a month ago and after we talked about it and got back together she told me she sent that text that I sent her that was of me apologizing to her to Stephanie and Stephanie said that she should talk to me. I heard that and it really didn't alarm me because I figured my girlfriend was making the decision to talk to me and I never really thought if Stephanie said don't go talk to him because he's not nice and he is a jerk. she would do what she said But I'm not so sure now...my girl is always forgiving me I mean they're never ever is a time she doesn't and she never has ignored me I have ignored her before but she hasn't never done it to me well here's the big thing last week Monday is when she left that morning I texted her's asking her if she fed my pig when she went to the barn like I told her the night before that morning to do and she said no so I got mad and I said well bro so I have to drive all the way over there and you just got finished at the barn and are coming home and I said whatever bro when I drove to the barn I saw her and Stephanie in the car together I looked at Heather and we've looked at each other but I was mad so I kept driving so Monday when she left I didn't talk to her or text her because she made me mad that morning the next day I was super busy so I really didn't get around to texting her first but at 12 o'clock that afternoon she texted me saying why have you not texted me?

 

I told her I'm sorry baby I have been so busy with school and I told her that I made two good grades on my test that I had to take for summer school and that I thought she would text me first she responded saying you're so perfect I miss you a lot and I'm happy you're doing good in school baby then right after she sent that before I could reply she said I thought you were going to text me though baby me being a ******* I texted her like two times more just talking to her and then I just stop texting her and I commented on her Facebook later that day and she put a picture up of her while she was in corpus Christie on the field trip with her teacher and her ffa members and I said baby smile she commented back and said I am smiling baby so I sent her a picture of me in a text message like maybe a hour or two after I read the comment she replied to me with on Facebook and it was a pic of me smiling and I said that's a smile and she replied saying my sexy baby(:

 

I wasn't really in the mood to talk because my schoolwork was stressing me out so I just replied yaaaaa well the next day which was Wednesday came along and we didn't text each other at all I didn't text her she didn't text me. The next day was when she came back and I have this thing on my phone where I can see if she read my message and my dumb friend that I was with got my phone and texted her and said hey baby I love you I hope you love me and whenever you come back if you want to spend the night at Stephanie's house you can because I'm going to a party with blake tonight and whenever I read that I told her I'm sorry baby that was my friend she read that text message and still did not text me back so I called her and she didn't pick up and I waited until I knew she was actually home well she really started worrying me so I called her sister and her sister said she was at Stephanie's house and about to go to the barn I kept wondering why she was ignoring me well we both go to the barn in the afternoon so I figured if I went up there I would see her I went up there and I did see her I walked up to her and said baby why are you not texting me back or calling me back but like in a pissed of tone and she ignored me so I walked up to her even closer and said baby do you not love me? I said I love you you didn't text me back I called you and you didn't pick up and she said I didn't miss you and I was like what do you mean you didn't miss me she was like I didn't miss us arguing I didn't miss us fighting and I just didn't miss you so I blew up in front of everybody and started saying like what the **** do you mean and like everybody was looking and So I kept asking her but she acted like she couldn't hear me and she walked over to where Stephanie was and Stephanie was cleaning her lamb with some other people soit wouldn't be awkward so I just started asking them how they were and stuff then I looked at my girlfriend and I put my arm around her but she pulled away and I was like what's your deal like seriously why are you acting like this she told me that she didn't miss me again and that's when I hit the ceiling and started saying did you ****ing cheat on me and she responded very quickly and said no I didn't cheat on you so I kind of calm down and I was like okay whatever so where are you going with this and she goes we need a break and I blew up and said so you want me to go see other people and she didn't respond and I said **** you and said some other stuff and walked off and then this group of people came over to me started arguing with me and like I said I have to go so I left and I got on my phone deleted her from Facebook changed my profile picture and went home well I was so like sad confused angry I don't know just I was going crazy so I called her that night and I was like do you love me and she was like yeah and I said then why do you want a break and she's like we will talk about it after the wedding and I kept repeating it she then told me that my Agg teacher called her parents and said I was cussing and being rude to my girlfriend.

 

 

I'm like so I don't get why you're like this and she's like I don't want to lead you on and when I heard that I was like so you're saying that you don't want to have my babies because like for the past three months she's been talking about how bad she wants to have kids with me and like she wants me to stop dipping because there's a better chance she can get pregnant and she's taking vitamins so there's a better chance and all this stuff and she goes no I will talk to you after the wedding and hung up on me well the wedding was Friday Saturday and Sunday so I never got a text or call from her Friday Saturday or Sunday and it started to worry me Monday I texted her and she was with Stephanie once again and she read my messages but never replied and I wrote hurt like a two page essay on how much I love her and how sorry I am so I called her and she didn't pick up then I got my friends phone and called her she picked up and I said why are you ignoring me and she hung up so I texted her and said I have all of your things and can you come out and get them and I said I feel like you are right we need to move on and start going separate ways and she texted me back and said this is Stephanie I will be by later to get them and she never came by and picked up her clothes well today I saw her at the barn and she didn't have my ring on and she totally ignored me but I ignored her to because like see this is where I'm lost I don't know what happened why is she acting like this do I still have a chance with her I mean my girlfriend has never been like this ever and I know she's not talking to another guy but I think may be Stephanie is telling her that you know you shouldn't get back with him because he was a jerk to you and stuff and her parents found out that I yelled at her and cuss that heard at the barn when she came back so I feel like they also are saying they don't want her with me I don't know for sure but I'm guessing but it like honestly people my girlfriend has never done this I mean she has taken me back after knowing I have talked to another girl and through way worse stuff but like I said earlier after we got together she said that she sent that apology text that I sent her the bell me talking to that other girl to Stephanie and Stephanie said it was okay and that she should come talk to me. and I didn't think that my girlfriend listen to her like okay I will go talk to him because you said that or if she would have said no then you know like she wouldn't have came and talk to me but I don't know I'm just thinking here that maybe Stephanie is calling the shots on what she does and we were perfect but it seems like after she came back she was this totally different person.

 

I thought maybe she was trying to prove a point because I ignored her this weekend and did not text her but I don't know what to do I thought I knew this girl so good and like honestly I never thought that she would ever do something like this and totally ignore me but she is so what do you think I should do like should I try to contact her again because she ignored me yesterday when I tried and do you think she moved on or like what and I'm thinking Stephanie her parents and Stephanie sister are really making this decision for her because my baby never ever would do something like this but I know Stephanie probably against me and her being together you honestly tell me what I should do because I know a girl like my girlfriend would never do this I mean she's totally ignoring me and before she left she was taking pills dad help her become more fertile and making sure that I wasn't dipping as much because she wants babies with me and that she already had the names picked out and like up until the last day me and her were hanging out but the night before she went on the trip she spent the night with Stephanie so like I don't know what should I do should I contact her again in a number of days or should I keep ignoring her giving her the cold shoulder when I see her because I see her a lot and like what because if she wants to be just friends with me I'm not doing that I mean I haven't asked her that and she really hasn't broken out with me yet it's like a break thing but I don't know what to do so please give me some information

and ever since the wedding has been over she has been with Stephanie I think they have been sleeping over together why the last couple of days at my girlfriends house but I mean when I see her in person she's always with Stephanie and like today she was not wearing her ring and she was really quiet but Stephanie was like touching on her and like I don't know some lesbian type of stuff but I acted like nothing was bothering me and I was making people laugh cracking jokes being the normal me so there you go tell me what you think and do you think I have a chance and please please please tell me what I should do from here on out like please man i love this ****ing girl so much and like she doesn't do drugs so I know that's not a problem and out of the two years I have been with her never once has something came out of her mouth like this and she has an never ignored me so I'm leaving this for you people to tell me what to do where should I go from here to get my girlfriend back

 

 

Moderator note: I gave up trying to get this into paragraphs.

Edited July 17, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Sugarkane]

I tried following but your post is awfully long and it's past midnight here. It seems really odd to me that one minute she's trying to get pregnant and the next throwing it all away to be lesbian. It just seems extremely immature to me. A baby is a serious thing .

[Sugarkane]

And how did this woman touch her? Did they have sex? I have friends but none of them touch me or feel me up. Sounds like she was cheating on you.

[icyboi123]

no i dont think that girl is a lesbian i dont think my girlfriend or her friend are lesbian i just think her friend really kisses her ass big time