leonie25 Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months ,everything is going really well had no arguments at all , we go on day trips here and there. I am his first serious girlfriend he has had , i love him loadz etc. I am the type of girl who in the past has many realtionships that i have been cheated on in the past and i dont know how to overcome this and trust my new boyfriend its really hard i am not that confidant in myself at all i get jealous really easy and parriod that he will run off with someone else . I just feel he can do much better than me i always have that at the back of my mind . A few months down the line i met his girl mate who at time i thought i would get on with etc . one day my bf askes me to go out for a drink with them sometimes i say no cuz i know i will be really quite and just sit back and let them speak. I get jealous really easy , i cearly have no confidance in myself at all. i feel ugly etc . I don't know what i am doing wrong ? leonie xx Link to post Share on other sites
lauda Posted July 18, 2012 Share Posted July 18, 2012 you have very very low self esteem, but you should remember that you and your boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 6months, which is amazing, he obviously loves you and is attracted to you, he wants to be with you and any girl would be happy that her boyfriend wanted her to go out with him for drinks with his friends. know that the past is in the past, that you've grown and learnt from all the heat ache, try and talk to him about some insecurities you have with him, i'm usr ehe would help to make you feel amazing and beautiful again. know that he loves you, its neither him or you, communicate about how you feel about yourself, he obviously loe and knows your beautiful and wouldnt want to be with anyone else Link to post Share on other sites
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