eightmonthspreg Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 Hi everyone I was wondering if i could get some support . Im at home doing bed rest as i have had a very complicated pregnancy. im in my 8ths month. While i was home yesterday having lunch with hubby. We heard a loud knock at the door. It was my hubby's work coll. As soon as he opened the door she started to shout, said only if your wife knew what you were like- you use people and treat them like ****. He asked her to come in and explain what was wrong. She came in and went straight pass the front room where i was sat into the kitchen area. As she walked down i heard her say " i dont see no picture of your son in the house" . I just froze. When she finely left , i asked what she was on about.... he said i dont know. i made him swear on my baby his mum and dad and he still continue to deny. I texted in the eve and said i will hire a PA to find or he can tell me. After 5 years of marriage i found out he has a son with the lady he works with. This lady is so verbally abusive . 7 years older than him. he shagged her at work and then she became pregnant and said she is going to have the baby regardless ,does not want anything from him. So why come to my house and stress me out knowing i have had a comlicated pregnancy? Is he still at it ? should i leave him? im so confused i feel like dying. i thought this baby was the first for me and him. She came round this morning to drop off a work resig letter and brought flowers and a baby walker, which my husbabd hid in the garage and told me later in the afternoon . How could he even keep them after what she did? he should of thrown them in the car and handed them back to her instead places them in the garage. i need some help please just any info will be great. Link to post Share on other sites
scatterd Posted July 21, 2012 Share Posted July 21, 2012 Oh you poor darling he has been lying to you for how long? Did he have this baby prior to you or while you were together? The woman had no right to disrespect your home either. I would bet he has been lying to her also. Link to post Share on other sites
crash9i77 Posted July 22, 2012 Share Posted July 22, 2012 Im so sorry to hear that. If you wish, you can read my story, It is long lol But it might make you feel better to read it. I wrote it down to make me feel better and finnaly confess to what I had been through. Link to post Share on other sites
armysoldierssweetie1 Posted July 27, 2012 Share Posted July 27, 2012 Im so sorry to hear that. If you wish, you can read my story, It is long lol But it might make you feel better to read it. I wrote it down to make me feel better and finnaly confess to what I had been through. Bless you girly, I agree with the others with what they said especially in your position that you're in. It's your choice if you don't wanna listen to his lies or the lady that came in your home and gave him her resignation papers... Best of luck in your situation.. Link to post Share on other sites
g450 Posted July 29, 2012 Share Posted July 29, 2012 Divorce him. He lied to you and he cant be trusted. With no trust there is no relationship. And make him pay child support. Link to post Share on other sites
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