WOleander Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 (edited) Can someone direct me to a thread, forum, person, anything where someone has experienced online affairs.. that are like mine? Mine is different. Here's how... I'm 24, female, single. He is 34, happily married. He use to be my boss. I haven't seen him since I worked for him about 5 years ago. But for the past year we've been having a crazy online affair.. even though we haven't actually seen one another in a long time. Yet somehow, a year ago, casual e-mail check ins turned into some crazy online sex stuff. Just looking for a friend, anywhere, anyone, who has had an online affair before with someone she knew. It's harder to find than you'd think Everyone's affair posts I read are with strangers on the internet they never knew... or they're just plain old affairs (in the flesh). Mine is different, as I said above. I'm just looking for someone who has been in my shoes that i can vent to and get advice. Thanks Edited July 23, 2012 by WOleander Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted July 23, 2012 Share Posted July 23, 2012 Hon, *everyone's* relationship is different. Whether it's an affair or not, online or not. Please don't think the threads here won't be helpful or that any advice doesn't apply. And actually I've read something similar to your situation more than once. What's your desired outcome? Do you want to remain in an affair with this guy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author WOleander Posted July 24, 2012 Author Share Posted July 24, 2012 (edited) hi, thanks for responding. I have browsed a lot of forums and most online ones are between people who are strangers and/or it's emotional/romantic between them. But you're right, everyone's is different. No, I don't want it to continue. In fact, I don't even like calling it an online affair. Because to me it's not an affair, there's no romantic feelings, there's no meeting up, there's no romantic desire on either end, it's purely & utterly just sexual. But everyone seems to call them online affairs, so I'll call it that. We haven't had "contact" in a few weeks now which is the longest in quite sometime. I'm hoping it stays this way, because I just can't quit him. WE've tried a few times before to break the online stuff and go our separate ways. We lasted almost a month, but he ended up e-mailing me and it all restarted. So I'm here because I've never told anyone else and I never, never, never will, for the sake of his marriage and both our reputations. But I needed to get it out because it's been years of bottled up craziness. And I guess I was just looking for someone else who has been in my shoes. Edited July 24, 2012 by WOleander Link to post Share on other sites
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