unconditional vs conditions

[FelicityShot]

Is love unconditional?

 

Having given some thought to this over the decades (yikes) I have come up with a 'new' (what really? well only to me) idea.

 

And I thought that love and any conditions one puts on it is much like looking at Matter and Anti-matter.

 

(I did think this after reading some sci-fi, so feel free to laugh).

 

Anyway, I kind of realised that love is unconditional. And all the boundaries and demands and needs, co-dependency or 'work' is anti-matter, and destroys it utterly.

 

The actual love is incommensurate with any boundaries - and pain occurs when we put those in place.

 

There is a ka-boom when conditions are encountered.

 

And these thinkings made me question the way we say 'well is this love?' and wonder 'well are these conditions love?'

 

I know there is fickleness and fear and needs in our actions and hearts, but deep down, all the people I have loved I love. It really doesn't matter to me if they are in my life now, or not, what circumstances or boundaries came into play or changed or stayed.

 

I just thought that recently.

 

I thought all this relevant to a recent closed thread.

[nofool4u]

Love is not unconditional. There is always the potential for a condition.

 

Example. I stop loving someone if I find out they f****d around.