dreamingoftigers Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 Well Hon, If he's worth it, than do it, and cut the other guy loose and be a stepmom. Find a way to work through the resent etc. Over not having one of your own. You've pulled as hard as you can, it appears that he isn't going to change his mind for love nor money. What is it you want more? Whatever it is, why? I wouldn't trade my littlest for any man, any day, even her father. It's a completely different kind of experience and deeper love that u dint think any woman should be deprived of if she wants it. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 (edited) I think if he really loved you he wouldn't of gotten someone else pregnant. Edited July 31, 2012 by Sugarkane 2 Link to post Share on other sites
all_hail_me Posted July 31, 2012 Share Posted July 31, 2012 I don't want to post my own two cents on this because it seems like a really sad story. This guy is a f****** w***** and if you were my friend, I would kick his lights in. How the hell can he do this to his child? Is he sick and deluded? Do you want to have the offspring of an idiot?! Imagine him with 2 kids doing this to another woman? I'm sorry but I'm so angry reading this. He's using your love against you because he messed up BIG TIME. I'm going to tell you a little story. A friend of mine was in a relationship with her man for 8 years. He didn't want kids, she wanted kids and marriage. Guess what, they broke up and she's in her 30s obsessed with work with no guy and no kids. Tick tick tick. Don't waste your opportunity on a loser like this. Time is precious for us women and men just DO NOT understand. I don't even want children and I'm telling you that you are wasting prime time on an idiot who will never make a good father. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
favoritepills Posted August 2, 2012 Share Posted August 2, 2012 Man, reading this thread is painful for me. I can't believe a guy would resort to such a BS move as emotionally manipulating you using his own daughter. Always using "we" instead of "I" in the note cards he leaves for you. Letting his daughter leave you sad, tearful voicemails. That's absolutely sick. He still doesn't want to have a child with you, yet he feels entitled enough to tell you not to sleep with other men. What the hell. He doesn't own you! He doesn't even deserve to be your friend, or to hear from you at all. You're smart and kind and thoughtful. Don't waste all that on this manipulative jerk. Think about how great it would be to be with a great guy who respects you, treats you well and wants the same things you want. Why settle for less? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mad and confused Posted August 2, 2012 Author Share Posted August 2, 2012 I called him and told him we were through, I've found someone else who wants to start a family. Someone I get along with and I see myself with for the rest of my life. I'll always love him, but it just won't work between us and this was good bye. His voice was shaky, and he asked if he could call later to talk after he had time to think. I told him yes he could, so now I'm just waiting for his call. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 Good for you. You picked a path instead of being held in the middle at the fork in the road. Link to post Share on other sites
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