chphan Posted July 27, 2012 Share Posted July 27, 2012 Okay so after numerous attempts with different girls finally been able to connect with a girl that was interested. We both agree to take it slow and start as friend, mind you I've never met anyone from OLD before. The messages exchanges were good and each exchange were deep written messages compare to the other girls that would reply back with 1-2 sentences and then just nothing. She then offer her number for texting which I did do and the text exchanges were good. Even when I don't text her she text me so that shows a sign of interest to me. But everything been on friendly terms and no flirting and stuff. I know enough the difference between connecting with someone online and then having to try and get that same connection in person face to face. So first meeting is coming up and I'm smart enough to know that usually first meeting is always awkward as you need to get use to each other. I was hoping first meeting be short like 15 mins or so just to see how the other person is in person as you can never tell what they look like in person compare to picture and if there's any connection outside of online to see if we can hold a conversation together. Was hoping to just meet up and then see if there's a possibility of meeting a second time or an actual date the 2nd time. Well turns out it's going to be about 45mins to hour lunch. I'm a little bit worry on what to do if we aren't able to connect in person like we do online. That's a long time of awkwardness if things aren't going good and trying to find something to talk about if we aren't able to hold a conversation like we do online. Am I also expected to pay for her lunch too even though this is just a meet up and not really consider a date. I don't want to leave an impression that I'm cheap. LOL. Would you consider this first meet up a date? Link to post Share on other sites
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