YES!!!! Another Friday and Saturday Night Alone!

[simplybrill]

is she for real....vedic astrology? no offense, but that whole thing looked like a spam ad I would ordinarily delete out of my junk mail.

[AsianIdol]

I know that sounded spammy and weird I was the biggest skeptic and I knew some people would not get it. Just do the research then decide! It's not spam but knowledge, the more you learn from something, if it was spam I would include who and where to get the chart, but I did not do that I hate spam and would not spam, who would eat pork in a can yuk!

 

Seriously I did not believe or want to believe but the more I did research into it the more it was real and made sense! I guess you gotta have an open mind, be ready, do the research, or not! It depends on you. For me I was going through so much and I saw some Websites that seemed to be right on so I checked it out and the more I found out about the more I realized it was real and worked. But hey each to his own, but in the Bible it says everything has its season and time, also when they looked for Jesus they followed the North Star so they also used Astrology, prophets and such!

 

Also look at how the moon affects us, tides, women's periods, cops say people go nuts and bonkers when the moon is full, werewolves transform into Michael Jackson, plants grow faster and more because water is brought up to the top of the soil, people get more romantic, etc.! So of course all the other planets affect us in very real ways and they are bigger than the moon so have an even stronger gravitational force and affect! Gravity is the main thing and reason and the moon is tiny compared to the other PLANETS! The bigger the object the bigger the gravity and effect, the sun is the biggest but is stationary while the planets and the moon rotate and revovle and have very real effects on us and our lives!

 

Anyways that is all I am going to say about it and if you read about RAHU KETU and you happen to be a Scorpio, Libra or Virgo and happen to be going through the worst year and hard times and break ups and being lonely then now you at least know why! It is not your fault and sometimes there are very real forces and influences acting upon us and our little lives, the more you know the more you will feel better! At least do the research first before just closing the doors off to knowledge and possible answers/solutions!

 

Peace, 2005 is going to be good for everyone!!!

[gd1039]

lol i was actually kinda waiting for someone else to say it first.

 

I mean, hey whatever floats your boat. I don't really believe in astrology, but if it works for you, great.

 

I have started thinking about another "strategy" i guess you could call it that. I work in a grocery store and if I counted the number of "couples" that work there I believe there are around 5. I know I know, its a bad idea to date someone you work with. I have done it before (we worked in the same department) and I swore I would never do it again.

 

That was a few years back. So now, there is this new girl that is always smiling at me when we see eachother and I tend to do the same (she works in a different department). She is kinda quiet and I felt like trying to be "mysterious" and smile and not talk to much yet to see if it works any better.

 

So, since I haven't talked to her very much I can't say for sure that I am interested, but would it really be the worst thing to talk more and maybe ask her out? I mean, normally I would not want to date anyone I work with, but maybe if she really is interesting I should just do it. Partly for the sake that me dating hasn't been the most eventful thing for a while and in combination with that, if I haven't dated in a while and I meet someone that I do find interesting, should I not date them just because we work together. Please note that I would not date her just to date someone. If I found she was actually interesting and I was attracted to her, is what I am considering.

 

On the other hand...maybe a better idea would be to work on getting new friends from work outside of work (and who knows they might happen to have a friend that is a girl that is single?) The only thing with this too, is that I am kinda selective with who I would hang out with from work. I like to keep work and my outside life as seperate as possible, so unless I really get along with someone I wouldn't hang out with them. All the gossip and junk that is talked about at work is something I don't want to be involved in (well at least talked about) so, I usually don't get into anything personal about myself when I talk to people at work. I may tell funny stories that happened to me, but I don't really talk about not having a girlfriend to people I work with or even about a girl I may like or whatever.

 

So, how about some input?

[shortbus74]

not following posts................too tired... too........

 

 

I would love to have a weekend off............(work would have not one but two cows)

 

Ladies,,,,,, and gets if called for..........Please enjoy the nights off for ME! Please!!!

 

 

The last time I went out was the 4th of July and keep in mind I worked from 3-10 that day..... on my days off I catch up the thing we call for whimps....SLEEP!!!

[AsianIdol]

I'm the Asian Slacker I do not know what that word means w-o-r-k is that how you spell it? Is that the opposite of vacation, travel, fun, living outside of a cubicle or Matrix? I think I should write a book about Slackdom and how to be a pro Slacker and yet be happy but that would require w-o-r-k and would go against my slackness! How about that for breaking typical Asian Stereotypes of the overachiever!

 

Ok actually I did temp while in college(look up constant parties and dates!). I even went to a concert the night before one of my finals once, I had to man Radio Head was playing! I had tickets, I "s-t-u-d-i-e-d" all day and had to rock!

 

Anyways some rules of work DO NOT DATE ANYONE THERE! You are just asking to get fired or to hate your life and job forever! Everyone knows not to date co-workers or roommates, havn't you watched the REAL WORLD??? Even though they never have any Asian men on it but I keep hoping they would? Are they trying to say there is no Asian men in the Real World? Just kidding ok but seriously dating people at work is BAD news, besides that most hotties at my offices were connected with BF or Huszbandz already! So what to do if you are not still with your college cutie? BE SAD AND ALONE HAHA! Ok bad joke, but I have no clue but do know dating from the office is bad news! From my own personal drama I have found that going to Yoga Classes is good for meeting people, not from the actual classes themselves because everyone like to be seen but has their guard and defenses up, but if you really join their like Yoga events, picknicks, veggie buffets and such you should be able to meet a cutie hottie that is very flexible and probably happy too, ah YOGA!

 

Next is the obvious Church group although I never had the need to go there or to use that one, always wanted to meet someone from the group it could be good! Other than that it has to be through friends if you even have any!

 

The worst places in this particular order: WORK, bars/niteclubs, discos, roommate or place of residence, internet!

 

Best places: College(although does not last), friends of friends, church group, Yoga, these are the only places I ever met someone!

 

Oh yeah the beach, if you live near one it is rare but I have met some nice ladies there!

 

I'm out, going to the Buddhist Monastary to chill from the World for a while, could not resist had to post this to help sentient beings become enlightened!

 

PEACE!

[gd1039]

I just want to thank everyone for their imput. Reading these posts made me realize that there are more people out there like me than I though (although mabey we are all online instead of out like me right now ) I see now that I need to work a little harder at making better friends and obviously a girfriend.

 

I also have read here and elsewhere before that you often meet someone when you are least expecting. Well, coincidentally I had to go to the store the other day and while I was waiting for help i was talking to some girl that worked there and I got her email before I left. It wasn't to "set up a date", well mabey it is, but I just kept it friendly for now. I didnt want to be "that guy" that all the girls mock at my job because he tried to get a number. I have got to say this was one of the places that I would have least expected to meet someone.

 

And yes yes, what about that girl I work with that I was wondering about? Well, I started talking to her a little more and we are way different. She's nice, but not my type of girl. So for now I am sticking with my plan that its best not to date someone you work with. Hopefully something comes of this girl I met a few days ago....

[Erratic Echo]

Geez, obviously I'm late in joining in the conversation, but I was really surprised to see what everyone wrote!

 

I am going through a break-up (yes, I've already posted about it) and on top of that, it seems that all my "friends" have fallen off the face of the earth? I even checked the obituaries for one of them!! No responses to emails, friends standing me up for lunch with no phonecall (before or after) and not mention no apoplogy.

 

I consider myself a very loyal person. I could never do that to anyone. I understand we all get busy sometimes, but I sent that email to my friend over a month and a half ago! What gives?

 

I am making the adjustment of spending weekends alone, and it's incredibly hard. Why is it so hard to find good friends? To hang out with and to talk to? And I know if I wanted to I could just get dressed up and go to some bar, but I'm sorry, it's not nearly as fun as when you have someone to go with- also people tend to stereotype women who walk into a bar by themselves..ie: "barflies"

 

Am I the only one who thinks this???!!