lila marie Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 im a new member, never done this before, but think my boyfriend id cheatinf=g. He cheated once before, and i for gave him. The last few months he gone from the sweet cuddly needy boyfriend to the I dont give a **** asshloe. advice please, how do i make him chase me insted od me chasing him? sincerely, i guess pathetic.
nicki Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 if you want him to chase you, then back way off and stop being nice to him...if he calls, then only talk for a minute before you "have to go."...when he asks you "what's wrong," tell him...or just screw the games and tell him right now and ask him why he is treating you like this... get a life going where you can meet people pursuing something interesting, like yoga, music, etc., whatever...just get out...you might see this guy isn't so great anyway...and you'll find something that you enjoy doing that isn't dependent on a guy... sometimes we get so caught up in getting someone "back" that we fail to ask ourselves if they good for us, and if he's acting like this, then he can't be very good for you...
Johnny16 Posted July 11, 2004 Posted July 11, 2004 Treat him the way he treats you and he will soon see how it feels. Good luck with everything. -John.
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