Johnny16 Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 I dont know how people can do this. Arn't there warning signs before you marry the person? Im only 16. And with a girl who I truly want to spend the rest of my life with. I always think about the future, and I always hear and read about people being together for several years, then breaking up. So it really freaks me out. Like i trust Ashley but many guys like me love and trust their girlfriends then look what happens. I guess im afraid of what is to come even thought im confident that it will workout. Sometimes I think she loves me or is obsessed with me more than I am of her, and I like that which makes me in a way, trust her more. But divorce, that must be the hardest thing in the world to go through. I mean, Ashley is the most wonderful person you could ever know and I dont want to have to find someone like her if something was to happen. --------------------------------------------------------------- One thing about me that must change, is Jealousy. My jealousy is ****ing ridiculous......I love her to death and LISTEN TO ME WHEN I SAY THIS: I WANT TO CHANGE FOR HER AND NOT BE JEALOUS! It pisses me off so bad that I have this problem. She said "If we do break up john, it will be because your so damn jealous". It hurts. I dont know what to say to have her help me through this. I say really stupid things. Like her tone of voice MAKES ME THINK SHES FLIRTING I DONT KNOW WHY. Could it be that Im more shy than she is, and that shes very friendly and out going? I trust her, I just dont trust guys. Because I know how guys think and she really doesnt.....sometimes when she wears skirts i get frustrated because I know guys will be checking her out and I sorta give her an attitude about it.......and this is even worse: I look at a random guy i see, then my imagination goes wild and i imagine that guy and her being together doing things. Isnt this so messed up? I sound like a psychopath....I need help, should I see a doctor? Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 So, she can't wear skirts but it's okay for you to make plans to fool around with another girl? Silly boy. -DA Link to post Share on other sites
Author Johnny16 Posted July 12, 2004 Author Share Posted July 12, 2004 I didnt make plans, I had the option to. See you just uncovered another thing about me that its so hard for me to control. Like I talk to girls, but If she talks to guys I cant handle it and I say stupid things. I pray to god I grow out of it because I feel so immature when it happens. Link to post Share on other sites
moodyblues Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 Dude, seek help before you live a lifetime of being a crappy, jealous boyfriend/ husband. Not being mean, just saying the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Johnny16 Posted July 13, 2004 Author Share Posted July 13, 2004 Yea I understand. I really want to do whatever I can to fix my jealousy problem. It's so weird and I get very frustrated over the fact that I try to stop it for her but I just cant. Also, can someone give me advice or something I can say to her so that she can understand how it is? Because I try explaining it and it feels as if she cant understand because she doesnt have the problem as bad as I have it. Link to post Share on other sites
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