Why is she crying over me when she didnt want me before

[Theglexpa9000]

I had this huge crush on this really shy girl. I was practically in love with her. But I wasnt sure if she felt the same. I did everything i could to get her to go out with me. I even confessed my feelings and she said she wouldnt mind getting to know me better but it never went anywhere. I was always there for her. Every time I tried to get her hang out she flaked. I even called her and we had a nice conversation but still no sign of real interest. I sent her cute little videos to make her laugh and sometimes she responded sometimes she didnt. Finally I saw her with another GUY at a party and they were grinding on each other i was shocked and then he spent the night over her dorm she was also getting alot of attention from other guys which she really loved. And that broke my heart . They started hanging out for a while and i guess something happened and they stopped. Then she started talking to me again. But I just responded with short replies wished her all the best and never contacted her again. She kept trying to get my attention but I was still too hurt while she was having a good time with friends. She knew i still loved her but i guess she felt guilty but mad that I was trying to control her in some way but i wasnt ready to forgive. She knew i was kinda of jealous of her with other guys yet she still posted pics with other dudes (I guess to get a reaction out of me and prove that I cant control her). Anyways i just got into a relationship and posted pics me with and my new girl. An hour after that she posted pics of herself looking really sad and about to cry. Our mutual friend told me that she is over her room crying her eyes out now. Is she crying for me? Or does she miss the attention I gave her. Should I feel bad?

[haribogumsnickers]

Dont' feel bad because she's only crying that you're not chasing after her hopelessly. Do your thing and see where this new relationship takes you. You're right, she didn't want you before so why cry now? Tell her to make like a tree and leaf. Wait, that's wrong...fail.

[FryFish]

she is an attention whore... Ignore her... FORGET she exists.

[StrangeBehaviors]

She misses the attention and that is all. She does not want to be with you.

 

And you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you, right? She just wants attention.

 

Pay it no mind. Drive on.

[Frank13]

She misses the attention and that is all. She does not want to be with you.

 

And you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you, right? She just wants attention.

 

Pay it no mind. Drive on.

 

I have heard this before and even experienced it myself. I could never do this to someone. Women don't have a problem with it. Then they say guys are pigs and only want sex.

[TG1]

Yes bro I would stay stick with your new relationship with your new girl because it is obvious at least to me that the girl who you had feelings for has feelings for you now but it is obvious that it is too late for her now to have a chance with you, so don't entertain the idea

[NoMagicBullet]

She had a chance at you, and she didn't take it. Her fault, her responsibility to deal with it now. Ignore her and focus on your GF.

 

She sounds manipulative -- I suggest not only ignoring her but gradually working her out of your life.

[TG1]

She had a chance at you, and she didn't take it. Her fault, her responsibility to deal with it now. Ignore her and focus on your GF.

 

She sounds manipulative -- I suggest not only ignoring her but gradually working her out of your life.

 

Definitely agree

[TG1]

LOL..highly doubtful that she's crying over you. College girls (a/k/a DRAMA QUEENS) cry over broken nails for God's sakes.

 

All you ever were to this little flake was a guaranteed ego boost when her jock boyfriends dumped her ass and she needed someone to fawn all over her until she found her next neanderthal.

 

You were that source, is all.

 

The girl doesn't give a rat's ass about you. She's made that PAINFULLY obvious over and over and over.

 

Don't be a fool and think for ONE SECOND that you have a shot with her. She's a user and will suck you dry (and NOT in a good way).

 

So blunt and to the point, I agree