niceplusfriendly Posted August 2, 2012 Share Posted August 2, 2012 The girl that I like sees me as this innocent and "nice guy" (my name says it all haha). Because of this, I find it really difficult to flirt. For example, I don't do any games with touching or I can't really banter. My friend which is "the other guy" actually supports me in liking this girl. However, when the three of us hang out, he is capable of flirting a lot more than me. He can playfully touch her shoulder, wrist, and he is just able to do any other games with her. If I were to do those things, I would get a stare or just like a, "Why are you doing that, you would never do that". Though I have been friendzoned to this girl already, (I asked her out and she said she didn't want to have a boyfriend but wanted to hang out still), I want to be able to do what my friend is able to do with her (It's nothing sexual if you guys were thinking that). This could be for future girls that I will like. Every reply is valuable to me! Thanks ladies and gents. Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 Banter takes practice. Talk to lots of different people until it becomes easy. Ask people the right questions, practice keeping the conversation going and what topics are good for friendly conversations. Learn to read people's facial expressions and body language. Learn to chat with girls by taking small steps, asking basic questions. For example, asking a random girl the time at the mall or for directions to somewhere local. Or chatting to a server in a restaurant about what they like on the menu. Or talk to someone standing n line about something. If your friend is as supportive as you suggest, ask him to give you a few pointers. Link to post Share on other sites
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