John999 Posted August 2, 2012 Share Posted August 2, 2012 Hi. New to this forum stuff but need some help. Meet a girl. She's 28 I'm 25. She left her number for me at work 3 weeks ago. Text her and got flirty and made genral conversation. Anyway I meet up with her a week later for a drink. Meet for a few drinks. Got along really well. Kissed which was great. She came back to mine and messed around a bit. 2 days later we went for some food together and a drink. She was really showing high interest by saying the things we could do in the future i.e eat a chinese together, go cinema etc. she came back to mine again and we ended up sleeping together. She stayed the night. she works right next to where I live which is funny. Didn't see her for a week but still text each other. asked her if she wanted to come round mine for some food and she said yes saying that sounds great. We ate and talked for ages. She seemed more closed than previous meetings though. Think she was waiting for me to initiate. Eventually started making out and we laid together and talked again. We ended up messing about again. Started having sex with her but eventually went floppy lol said she wasn't bothered and that there's plenty of time. I felt a bit bad and said I liked her and it had nothing to do with her. She suggested going to cinema on the Friday. She left. This is where it went a bit weird. She text me saying thanks for your hospitality when she got home. I said yeah will sort something about the cinema and have fun getting up at 6 in the morning for work. She just said "I will" nothing about it would be good to go to the cinema. Now she has seemed to of gone a bit cold on me. Not texting me as much and taking a while to reply compared to before. She might be busy though. Asked her earlier if she was up for the cinema tomorrow. Took about an hour to reply and said she forgot that its a friends bday and shes going to her local pub and also that shes working late now. she never mentioned either the other night when she suggested it. She has suggested going cinema next week though instead. Is she playing hard to get now? Maybe losing interest. Also last night she said that her phone died just after she text me saying that she could do with a massage and a tickle from me and it was a shame I wasn't with her. Said she didn't sleep well either. Could she be seeing someone else? Any advice would be good. Sorry for the lecture ha Link to post Share on other sites
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