TaraMaiden Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 Wow. Big ball. Little court. Now what.....? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
jwi71 Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 OM left his wife. He said "now it's your turn" You mean his D is final? Wow...that's the worlds fastest D ever. My point is, of course, is what does "left" mean exactly. Those comments aside....now what? Are you going to file for D now? Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 (edited) You are wrong. My H has bedded MANY women, and he tells them he loves his W (that way he can drop them more easily when the time comes... they always knew he 'loved his wife'). I said "what are the odds" Depends on the women he beds down. I'm sure there are some women that don't care and will sleep with anything with 3 legs. Point was thats what we always here, the poor cheater is in an unhappy marriage, blah blah blah. I think alot of them want to coax someone else into bed, so some will think the way to do that is to tell the OP they are unhappy in their marriage, because a quality person won't sleep with someone that says they love their M and are just looking for a little side piece. You have an aggressive way of writing -- rather accusatory. I've noticed it elsewhere too. Good for you. Edited August 13, 2012 by nofool4u Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 OM left his wife. He said "now it's your turn" No - you need to make a break from both of them and be on your own for a while. No use falling deeper in love with someone you see no future with. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mercy Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 OM left his wife. He said "now it's your turn" Run, no really, run. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2_long Posted August 14, 2012 Author Share Posted August 14, 2012 I've just gone back and read many posts and would like to thank you (most of you!) for your very thoughtful answers. I don't know what I'm going to do about OM. I have never given him any indication that this is more than an A but I really enjoy his company and it feels like the only pleasure I have in my life. That's not fair if he is really starting to want a relationship with me, but it is damn hard to give up the only thing that helps me get through the day. And then there's H. He is looking for any sign that I might stay. As always, when he talks to me about our M it seems to make sense what he says and as soon as we are just living our lives I wonder how I can fall for his words still after all these years. At least I no longer quickly agree and fall back into the abyss like I used to, but I feel like there's some logic gene missing in me when it comes to him. I'm miserable and can't seem to s#%^ or get off the pot. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 I'm miserable and can't seem to s#%^ or get off the pot. Well then for your husband's sake, I hope he makes the decision for you soon. Link to post Share on other sites
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