CassOblanka Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 So I recently met this amazing boy on holiday. He made such an impression on me and its very rare that would happen to me. We hung out for a few days and we hooked up and then sadly I had to go home. Hes traveling right now and at the moment he lives and works over in Spain. Im not naive and I know he probably hooks up with a lot of girls but we had a really great time together and he added me on facebook, we were chatting a bit back and forth when I got home but in my last email I told him not to worry about replying right away as i know hes busy and i didnt want him feeling obliged to email me. So now my question is this… is there any way of me going over for a weekend to visit him without coming across as this crazy stalker girl who wants this impossible relationship?? Because I know that would never work but I just had such a good time with him that its seriously bumming me out that i might never see him again especially when I can afford to take a weeked trip over to visit him… its all just about how i would come across to him…. I'd really appreciate any opinions/advice .... Thanks guys Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 Ok, so you've got money and time to get there and spend a weekend with him. But, what about asking him a few questions first? 1) Hi, I was wondering... would you like to meet me again? (see what he says) 2) Because I might have a chance to spend a weekend there in Spain. What would you think? Would you like to spend some time with me? Or do you have a gf or are you busy with your friends? This is best done by phone with live interaction. So if you don't have his phone #, ask for it first. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CassOblanka Posted August 3, 2012 Author Share Posted August 3, 2012 Thanks for the reply I know that he doesnt have a girlfriend. I guess I could ask him outright if he wanted to see me again but I really dont want him thinking that I cant just forget about him and move on with my life now that im back home... i mean hes a really nice guy so i dont think he'd be a jerk about it but i guess im just worried of how i would come across... kinda sad/desperate maybe?? Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted August 3, 2012 Share Posted August 3, 2012 Well, I know what you mean, the last thing I'd want is coming across as needy and desperate. But we both know you are Just don't tell him. For now. Wait and see how he feels about you first. If you were just a pleasant inbetween or what. Link to post Share on other sites
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