Accused her of cheating. Was it justified?

[lunat1ccc]

I've been with my Army girlfriend for a few months before she got stationed in Germany. She's been there for over a month now and so far, things have been alright. This morning, I get a message from my girlfriend's roommate (we had training together so we know each other a bit) and told me that she suspected that my gf was cheating. Here's the story.

 

Last night, the roommate went out to party with some of her friends and came back early next morning. My girlfriend stayed in the barracks and didn't go out. When the roommate woke up in the morning, she said she found a used condom in the toilet. Here's the thing; the bathroom is like a suite and shared by one other female across the hallway. When the roommate confronted my girlfriend and asked her about the condom, my girlfriend said it was probably the other girl across the hall. But then, the roommate also told my girlfriend that the girl across the hall was out all night as well. Then the roommate said my girlfriend didn't say anything and got quiet I don't think the roommate and the other girl hung out, the roommate I think was just saying that she was out all night. .

 

I confronted my girlfriend about it and she said that she did not do it and knew nothing about the condom. When I skyped her regarding this, I was already angry because the situation was as if she did cheat. My girlfriend started crying hysterically and started telling me she didn't know what was going on. She kept on telling me that she loved me and that I was the only person that she wanted to be with. She said that she'd even buy me a planet ticket to come see her and that she would take leave to come back to the States to visit me and the family.

 

Honestly, I can't picture her cheating, from what I've known her to be like. She's young but only had sex once with her first boyfriend, and that was a bad experience. The girlfriend explained that her roommate was drunk and if she was out, she wouldn't have known if the girl across the hall was there or not. Now, this hall girl has been there for a while and is leaving back to the States in a week or two. I just feel that I really need to just trust my girlfriend, but at the same time, realize that it's not always EASY to do. Do you think I should just trust her?