Back again.. the real question (has she cheated)

[Random name]

Alright boys and girls.. heres another kicker.

 

I confronted my girlfriend (about cheating) because I could not bare dealing with my gut feeling.

 

What I found out was this. She has had opportunities to but she swears to GOD that she hasn't.

 

I found out who the guys were, kinda sad because some were my so called "friends"

 

ANOTHER TWIST. She has been saying I deserve better. Why does she say that.. confusion and anxiety are driving me nuts now haha. I love this girl so much.. why would she think I deserve better..

 

She has lied to me a few times as well. And I've scolded her for doing so. I preach to her about how lying only ruins relationships!

 

The only reason I ever had the gut feeling is because she is a known liar.. She was being shady for a couple nights.. but hey I have ZERO proof that anything has happened.

 

IDK what to do with this, what to say.. what to feel.. I love this girl.. with all my heart.. I want to be with her forever..

[hk_1]

bro if you love this girl then I see trouble for you, how can you trust a proven liar? and she is not even sure about your position in her life, I will sincerely say at least do not love her that much she is not in a mood to value love.

Edited August 6, 2012 by hk_1

[Chi townD]

Dumb...dumb...dumb....

 

Rule of thumb. Cheaters will ONLY admit to what you can prove. If you can't PROVE ANYTHING, then take a scientific wide ass guess what kind of answer you're going to get.

 

The only thing that you've done with confronting without anything is to teach her how to hide her affairs better.

[veggirl]

She is trying to tell you she DID cheat without having to SAY it. that's why she said you deserve better.

 

What happened the nights she was being shady?

[seibert253]

She's a liar and you don't trust her. My question to you is why she's not your exx-GF?

[KungFuJoe]

A history of lying? What kind of lies?

[TG1]

Break up with her now effective immediately

[Random name]

A history of lying? What kind of lies?

 

I asked her if she told person A anything and she tells me no. Then 5 minutes later she admits to it.. Its the simple stuff

[Random name]

She is trying to tell you she DID cheat without having to SAY it. that's why she said you deserve better.

 

What happened the nights she was being shady?

 

She went to sleep earlier, had me drop her off earlier at her grandparents, etc..

 

Didnt respond to text messages for good bits of time. etc etc.

[Random name]

Also, her reasoning for saying I deserve better.. and I see this now..

 

She knows she has lied to me about stuff.. the past etc etc.

 

She says theres bound to be something better out there for me.

 

She swears she will try her best but she just thinks I won't ever trust her again.

 

And she says she just wants me to be happy.

 

She says that some promises are meant to be broken as well.. which doesnt really make any sense..

 

All in all she thinks she isn't the best for me. She thinks she doesn't make me happy, but she really does. she is AMAZING to be around.

 

She says that its not that she wants to break up with me or anything like that. I believe that; she is constantly talking about how bright our future is together and what not..

 

ALL IN ALL she just wants the absolute best for me!