Author 2muchlove Posted August 7, 2012 Author Share Posted August 7, 2012 "I'm dying, but I left you everything in my will." Damn. That's rough. Link to post Share on other sites
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 I would like him to kneel on beans, cry a river, apologize everyday for a month, and beg me to come back with a promise that he will change his ways by seeking serious help. Ohhh YEAH couldn't have said it any better....right on point! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 "i'm a gigantic piece of sh*t, i truly realize what a selfish, self-centered, manipulative as*hole i've been. I'm a pathetic cheater and i'm an habitual liar and i'm seeking therapy to help with all my inner demons and character flaws. I've realized now that i need extensive extensive therapy, i'm also learning how to communicate and work through problems instead of running away. You are the one that got away. You're amazing." story of my life...just what ive been wanting to hear from that jerk -___- Link to post Share on other sites
cherrybombx Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 I'd love to hear "I'm really sorry that I've put you through so much pain. I meant what I said when I told you that there would be no one after you. I would like to continue our life together... I'm sorry I ever put the blame on you and our relationship. I can't get you out of my head. My bed doesn't feel the same without you and I would give anything to just hold you again. Let's meet for coffee and try to figure this out..." Yeah.. obviously I'm still in the healing process. Ha. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Million.to.1 Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 I'd just like to hear the REAL reason he broke-up with me from his own mouth. HER. Link to post Share on other sites
Xestenz Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 'My time away from you has made me realize how essential you are to my life.' 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Gulf-Delta Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 An apology, and if we're wishing unrealisticly, an attempt to be in each other's lives again. Link to post Share on other sites
Kovalchoke Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 An apology. Link to post Share on other sites
Pod81 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 "I was immature and selfish. The grass ISN'T greener on the other side. I took you for granted and realize that you are the person I want to be with and that I still love you. I'm sorry for being a s**tty girlfriend and I will prove to you that I can be the committed girlfriend that you truly deserve." ....and of course, she would have to prove it through actions. I'm not banking on this ever happening though. Gotta stay strong and keep moving on! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
changchewsoon Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 (edited) One of my ex did called me after she got married, and told me "she wished she could have my baby as a token to remember, and raised the child with her current husband without telling him".... Then, I had one ex who got married and divorced, told me that she wished I would left her with a baby prior to our break up, so she would always have a part of me with her.... Man, I thought that was really messed up........ As for my recent break up, I haven't heard anything from her since it has been less than a month. But I doubt she'll say the same to me, because she had a child from her previous marriage, she's a widow. But what I would really like to hear from her would be: "I am sorry I was so selfish, I kept comparing you to a dead person and wanted you to treat me like how he did. I was wrong. I've forgotten he cheated on me when he was still alive, and you did not. I am a cake eater, I do not deserve your love." Or maybe, "I just wished you left me with a baby what the heck" LOL :laugh: Edited August 8, 2012 by changchewsoon 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dannykeyz831 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 "I told my mother to drop dead" "She will no longer interfere with our lives" "I want you back, I need you back!!!" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2muchlove Posted August 8, 2012 Author Share Posted August 8, 2012 One of my ex did called me after she got married, and told me "she wished she could have my baby as a token to remember, and raised the child with her current husband without telling him".... Then, I had one ex who got married and divorced, told me that she wished I would left her with a baby prior to our break up, so she would always have a part of me with her.... Man, I thought that was really messed up........ As for my recent break up, I haven't heard anything from her since it has been less than a month. But I doubt she'll say the same to me, because she had a child from her previous marriage, she's a widow. But what I would really like to hear from her would be: "I am sorry I was so selfish, I kept comparing you to a dead person and wanted you to treat me like how he did. I was wrong. I've forgotten he cheated on me when he was still alive, and you did not. I am a cake eater, I do not deserve your love." Or maybe, "I just wished you left me with a baby what the heck" LOL :laugh: That's classic. lmao Link to post Share on other sites
chrisusarmy2005 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 I would like her to tell me that shes sorry for breaking my heart hard, I would like to hear that I was her everything and I have a big heart and I supported her at her worst and her best. Basically that im a great boyfriend and I was dumb for breaking up with you. Who knows it may happen. I still love her,its been 4 mos but still. Thats what Id like to hear. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Blastoplast Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 I just want to hear EXACTLY why she broke up with me. I still feel she's wishy washy about it. On one hand, her reasons for the break-up (no spark, not paying rent and bills for MONTHS, not happy with herself) make sense to me. But when I see she was sucking face with some other guy 2 1/2 months after our BU it makes me question whether or not she was pining for some other guy at the end, or maybe not even a guy but a change that I couldn't offer her. I mean, I've messed around once since our BU, but it really made me wish it was with her. What bugs me the most is that while I'm here doing tons of stuff to better myself, like going back to school, writing and getting in better shape -- she hasn't done anything and it does make me worry that she has found somebody else and plans to stay around here instead of this move she's been planning on making. Ideally, I'd hear "I'm sorry we broke up. It was a huge mistake, you were right. I'm 100% honest that there wasn't anybody else, and the one guy I hooked up with post-BU was just a fling and nothing more. I love you, please let's get back together" That would just take a lot of weight off my chest! Link to post Share on other sites
Blastoplast Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 "I was immature and selfish. The grass ISN'T greener on the other side. I took you for granted and realize that you are the person I want to be with and that I still love you. I'm sorry for being a s**tty girlfriend and I will prove to you that I can be the committed girlfriend that you truly deserve." ....and of course, she would have to prove it through actions. I'm not banking on this ever happening though. Gotta stay strong and keep moving on! I'd also love to hear this from my EX! Link to post Share on other sites
iris219 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 Iris, You are the best thing that ever happened to me, and I f—ed every thing up. I think about you every day. I know no one else will ever put up with me so I have resolved to live my life alone. I will die alone and lonely, and it’s no one’s fault but my own. I realize now that I’m too messed up to ever have a relationship. You’re an amazing person who deserves so much better. Thank you for accepting all of my many flaws. You showed me what being genuinely loved can feel like; I’m sorry I don’t have the capacity to love anyone other than myself. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 ES, I am sorry how I treated you. You are wonderful in every way and didn't deserve any of this. I will never have as beautiful and awesome girl as you and I am going to regret my mistakes for the rest of my life. P.S. My d... has fallen off 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Lone Blue Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 Lone Blue, You were right. No one can compare to you. You are the love of my life, the light of my days, and I am sorry for putting you through so much pain. I am sorry for behaving so rashly, knocking on your door and telling your mother that I no longer was in love with you. I regret making you sick, I know how you suffer from anxiety, but most of all, I regret letting you go. No woman can love me or satisfy me the way that you did, because at this point, it would be stupid to assume that you still love me. And God, if I were so lucky to still have some of your love, and even if I'm not, I will fight tooth and nail every day to make it up to you, regardless of whether we end up together or not. I'm also sorry for stringing you along and not knowing what I had. You were and will always be special to me. I love you, I wish you the best, and I will regret this for the rest of my days. P.S. I lied. I will never see women as f*** toys. Also, I've been more heartbroken than you ever knew, and yes, I've been influenced in not being with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Regrets58 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 For her to say,look it wasn't just you.We have two very different personalities. I loved you very much once and we had some wonderful times. Ultimately the differences were too great and I am sad about that. I will always remember you with great affection and regret that we never made it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2muchlove Posted August 8, 2012 Author Share Posted August 8, 2012 For her to say,look it wasn't just you.We have two very different personalities. I loved you very much once and we had some wonderful times. Ultimately the differences were too great and I am sad about that. I will always remember you with great affection and regret that we never made it. I appreciate the honesty and acceptance in this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2muchlove Posted August 8, 2012 Author Share Posted August 8, 2012 There's a lot of good ones in here. Let's keep em goin! Link to post Share on other sites
fucpcg Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 "I miss you, I want to talk, and I want this to work. I miss my best friend. And we should do it right after we **** for a few hours to catch up on time lost" Okay the 3rd sentence is optional. Link to post Share on other sites
gotye Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I want to have him be like; You are over me, right? We can be friends now? and I will say; No, not because I am not over you, but because you are a total a**. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 "I'm sorry". I don't need anything more than that and I know even that will never happen. Link to post Share on other sites
TheUnthoughtKnown Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 (edited) I could write an essay on the things I want to hear from her, but I'll try and keep it short and sweet: "Hi, Just wanted to check in, see how you were doing. I know it's been two years since we've spoken but I feel like we had something worth staying in each others life for, no matter how small a part of each others life we are. I don't know about you, but I think about you often. Not nearly as often as I used to, but often enough that when I do I go to this site called LoveShack and talk about you, maybe you've heard of it? Anyway, I just wanted you to know you were right: one person CAN'T take "100% blame for everything" in an argument, and I'm sorry I asked you to. I'm also sorry I claimed your inability to do so was a mark of your childishness and that I needed a man who could take responsibility for his actions, not a boy who blamed everyone else. I know you probably feel we shouldn't talk ever again and I don't blame you, but if, on the very off chance you've spent two years developing a burning hatred for everything about me right down to my name and the smell of the perfume I use, I'd like you to know I've regretted my decision every since. Okay so you got angry, it wasn't the end of the world. You know what, I DID flirt with my ex a little too strongly that night, you were right. I just wanted to make sure you were watching, and I'm sorry. Also, while I'm doing this, my mother was wrong too. I never should have got her to give you the keys to my place so you could pick up your stuff, I knew she'd shout at you and make you feel like a **** up and a fool. I should have met you myself but I acted like a child. I dumped you over the phone and didn't have the balls to meet you to discuss it or give you the closure you deserved. You know, the last words I ever said to your face were "I love you too" and I meant it. I still love you now. And I know we'll never be together again but I'll always love you in some way, because you are a nice person and you tried so hard to make me happy and I spit in your face the first time you made a mistake with me. I mean, isn't that what relationships are about? Don't we make mistakes so we can learn how to be with each other? I hope you were able to move on and are happy now. I have, and I am, but I'll always miss you and always wish I'd done things different. P.S, you remember Julie? You were right, she did turn out to be a massive slut who was a really bad influence on me. How the hell did you see that back then?!" Edited August 9, 2012 by TheUnthoughtKnown 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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