TaraMaiden Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I made a comment about that - but deleted it as being a bit 'over the line'. She may have been one silly drunken chick, but there's no need for base insults.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author little_red_bike Posted August 9, 2012 Author Share Posted August 9, 2012 She may have been one silly drunken chick, but there's no need for base insults.... That she is. In terms of actual sexual precautions... I did see a condom wrapper in the morning, but decided to take the morning after pill as soon as I got out of there and went for a check up within 3 days. stupid stupid stupid Link to post Share on other sites
Author little_red_bike Posted August 9, 2012 Author Share Posted August 9, 2012 This Guy sounds weird, he is "aggressive" and would scare me also. Get a restainig order. Did you drink allot that night? I wonder if you could have had a date rape drug, or were you aware, and wanting to go with him? Look at this link ,it has info about it. Date rape drugs fact sheet | womenshealth.gov I don't think I was drugged, but I did black out, woke up confused, I didn't even remember meeting this fellow, I was told I couldn't walk properly. I'll put it down to, too much alcohol. Honestly though, lesson learnt, the next few days when my friends were partying it up, I was conscious of every decision I made. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 Please stay sober - if only for two reasons: One, it's safer. Two: when you see other gals getting drunk, it's a window into how really a dumb, stupid and badly-behaved lady, alcohol really turns you into... it's frankly embarrassing to see women getting so drunk that any vestige of Dignity and self-respect just drowns in a Vodka-and-orange.... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 anyone else notice her name is little red bike? come on now, good fiction I don't really care whether or not it's a made up story. It's certainly in the realms of possibility and the advice given may be of use to someone reading this thread who is actually in a similar situation to that described. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 So, let me get this straight? You were raped....but, you enjoyed it... okay. Bases covered. And you've been dancing around (and haven't even mentioned) what you plan on telling your boyfriend. Are you gonna hide this from him? If that's your plan, then too late! You're girlfriends know what happened and sooner or later, it's going to get back to him that you had rough sex with a guy at a party. Too many witnesses. He's going to find out even if you swear your girlfriends to secrecy. He's gonna find out. Link to post Share on other sites
all_hail_me Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 (edited) The next night we were out, I bumped into him, he wanted to dance, and I said no a few times because I was enjoying my time with my gfs.. Me and my friends went outside, he asked me to come home with him and I said no, I told my gfs to give me a second with him so I can tell him I really didn't want to, he was really persistent and grabbed my wrists and was pulling me to the point I got bruises. My friend saw what was happening, and was breaking us apart, only to get slapped in the face! WTH!?!? at this point I was screaming at him to go away and he ran off. Moments later we were in a crowd of people and I saw him trying to find me in the corner of my eye and then I completely freaked out, infact I'm freaking out right now... I was shaking and crying. Some guys around us saw the commotion and wanted to find this guy, he ran off again, later on we were walking back home with a crowd of people and my friend told me he was in the alleyway just standing there, possibly waiting, who knows. I really cannot understand why you went out so soon after this incident?! A guy tried to have sex with me when I was in uni (while I was passed out and off my face on coke). I could tell someone was trying to yank off my jeans - but sadly for him, I threw him across the room and went into a rage where I almost broke his neck. Ha, funny story. Point is, I was so scared after that, I didn't touch that crap again and didn't go out to strange guys houses. I didn't leave my own home other than go to class for a month. I really think you need to tell your boyfriend because you can't lie about this for the rest of your life. And by the sound of this guy, your bf is going to find out one way or another! Edited August 10, 2012 by all_hail_me Link to post Share on other sites
weallfalldown Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 you are the typical blonde, blonde or not....... Link to post Share on other sites
Author little_red_bike Posted August 10, 2012 Author Share Posted August 10, 2012 I really cannot understand why you went out so soon after this incident?! Because I thought I was fine, I just wanted to go out with my gfs and didn't want to feel like a victim, but trust me after the slapping incident I was anxious as hell. The first thing I'm going to do is deal with this on my own for now, when I'm composed and ready I'll tell. I'm still feeling traumatic, last night I had a flash back of waking up and my clothes were gathered in the middle of my body and that triggered some serious confusion and hate. I can't stop crying, I'm seriously breaking apart Link to post Share on other sites
FryFish Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 laugh out loud funny... Please quit trolling. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted August 12, 2012 Share Posted August 12, 2012 Because I thought I was fine, I just wanted to go out with my gfs and didn't want to feel like a victim, but trust me after the slapping incident I was anxious as hell. The first thing I'm going to do is deal with this on my own for now, when I'm composed and ready I'll tell. I'm still feeling traumatic, last night I had a flash back of waking up and my clothes were gathered in the middle of my body and that triggered some serious confusion and hate. I can't stop crying, I'm seriously breaking apart You've been through a serious trauma and will feel all manner of feelings but perhaps overall, confusion. Talk to professionals such as Rape Crisis in the UK, or their equivalent where you are. You don't have to raise charges but support from people with the right experience and training can help you navigate through this. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
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