PMA Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 My yo friend and I have been together for 7 months. I know it's soon but it's happened fast and we have lived together for 5 months ( officially for 1 month ). He usually goes out with his guy friends at least 3 times a month. He says he goes to the bar , but I've heard from my roommate at the time that my bf told him that he went to the strip club. So recently, he said he was going out to a bar with his best friend ( a guy ). I was okay with it. I fell asleep and saw that it was 4 am and that he still wasn't home. I called and texted him worried because that's not like him. He didn't answer and turned his phone on and off the entire time. He finally texted me back saying that he was spending the night at his best friends house. The next morning I found a hotel receipt that he said was for his friend. I found out from going on his facebook that he spent the night in a hotel with a girl he used to mess around with before me. She said that they had sex and that he said he's in love with her. Idk what to do or think ! He's telling me the complete opposite. Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I refuse to believe you are this dense. Trollin aint what it used to be. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TG1 Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I refuse to believe you are this dense. Trollin aint what it used to be. Confront your boyfriend about it and tell him to be honest with you Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 You found a hotel receipt AND you had the girl confirming that she was with him in the HOTEL! What's there to be confused about? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
venusianx13 Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 If there's a reciept, it must have the name of the credit card holder on it. Or at least the last four digits of the card number. Check it against your boyfriend's...but if you have the receipt, plus the testimony of the girl he slept there with, for me, that'd be enough to end it. He's already been dishonest with you; what made you believe he was going to stop there? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
shayla Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 He has proven that he is a liar so forget about what he's saying. What are his actions showing you? You don't need advice, you know what's going on, the question is whether or not you are going to keep someone that you know is having sex with other women. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
TG1 Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 He has proven that he is a liar so forget about what he's saying. What are his actions showing you? You don't need advice, you know what's going on, the question is whether or not you are going to keep someone that you know is having sex with other women. Good luck. But maybe the other girl could just be saying that her and your boyfriend had sex as a way to piss you off or it legitimately did happen and if it did happen, then the question is what are you going to do about it? If you love your boyfriend that much and he cheated on you, could you get past it and try to forgive him, or would it be a deal breaker Link to post Share on other sites
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