Random name Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 My gut instinct is glowing now.. its crazy My girlfriend of nearly 6 months told me about a guy that was hitting on her and what not, trying to get with her etc etc. One week later, she adds him on facebook (she sent the request to him) Is this not a little weird? Link to post Share on other sites
silicone Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I'd start looking out for other clues. But yes, it is a bit weird. You might want to ask her about it, but it's a double edged sword. If she gets defensive, you can guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Random name Posted August 9, 2012 Author Share Posted August 9, 2012 She also has been deleting her messages as in she is trying to hide something... yea. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 She also has been deleting her messages as in she is trying to hide something... yea. Ahh. Well, a lot of people hide their cheating by talking s.hit about the person they are cheating with. "he is sooo annoying. He won't leave me alone. I barely respond" and so on. yes you should be very concerned. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 Yeah, you should be concerned. What if the shoe was on the other foot. If a girl was hitting on you and trying to get with you; then, she finds out that you added her as a facebook friend, how do you think she would react? Probably not in a good way. Link to post Share on other sites
TG1 Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 Yeah, you should be concerned. What if the shoe was on the other foot. If a girl was hitting on you and trying to get with you; then, she finds out that you added her as a facebook friend, how do you think she would react? Probably not in a good way. Exactly and I say your girlfriend is definitely hiding something bro and if I were you, I would definitely call her out on it and ask her for the truth and to be 100% honest with you and if she can't be honest, then you know, you are definitely going to have to break up Link to post Share on other sites
venusianx13 Posted August 13, 2012 Share Posted August 13, 2012 Okay, I have a suggestion, and it may not be a popular one. First, try to talk to her - that's the adult thing to do. If you have a worthwhile partner, she will be able to have a mature discussion about your concerns. If you get nowhere with that, contact the guy she added. I only say this because in the past, the only way I found out that my ex cheated was by contacting the girl he cheated on me with (he added her on facebook, too.) She ended up being honest with me and when I told him about our discussion, he came clean. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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