Is he trying to have more than a friendship?

[Tati_Mo]

I have a friend for almost two years now. We have a good friendship and we trust eachother alot. He is just the one but I never had the courage to tell him. The problem is that I can not understand what goes with his mind. We have strayed twice because he realized that I liked him. The second time, well, it was weird because he always told me that he was alone and enjoying himself and then I came to know that he was with a girl. The second question this time is that some times he teased me slightly. I didn't give him much response because I didn't even believe in this possibility and he mooved on and stayed with that girl for a while. It turns out that recently, I was beginning to have someone who I ended up leaving because I love this guy and I couldn't just forget, and then this guy started to talk again with me as if we never had stopped... but this time he started teasing me ... He even started to tell me thoughts of that in a year we will be both important and that he needed to me tooned, because we would be a perfect match.

 

And I Told him "take the horse from the rain because it will not happen" and it was one of continuing to play. In the following days we were talking about medical tests because I had left a medical query and there it happened to talk about condoms and, strangely, without needing he just told me his preferences and size ... Anyway.

Yesterday began to provoke me to tell things I did on the floor level of sex and I started to cut the conversation because I don't need to be played with my feelings but he always got to say I was a sissy and so on and when he began to realize I was not in the mood of beeing played he said "What? Are you already being serious? xD." And other thing is that I am learning massage tips and he offered himself as a guinea pig/experiment for me to do and train ... Anyway, help me understand please... Is he interested or just playing? I do love this guy in a way that I have a lot of guys trying to have a relationship with me but when I try to, I just can't have them because in my mind he is allways there. tks

[mtber75]

Yes he is trying to be flirty with you! Your last sentence indicate that you want this to be more than just friends also so why the hesitation? If you guys do hook up than you have the advantage of knowing each other beforehand.

[Tati_Mo]

But then why did he gave me "no" before this? And why is he saying he is just kidding? That is what confuses me... :/

[mtber75]

You said no too? So he's probably just as confused as you are. Just tell him straight what your feeling. He'll probably do the same once he knows your being serious.