VandyBoy Posted August 10, 2012 Share Posted August 10, 2012 Hello all this is my first post here... I wanted some feed back on my situation I'm in. Please. There is this girl I met five months ago. We both go to school and met there too. We parted ways for the summer. Now before we left, we went on a one date. Over the summer I tried to keep in touch with her so she knows I still care. She sent me a text saying she did not want to get serious until we got back. So I understood this and have not made any contact with her because she doesn't do long-distance communication with someone she likes and nether do I. Well I'm back, but still kinda far away from her. From what I can tell she wants to wait tell we start back in school (college) to get serious. Its clear to me she see me as a long term dude. SO here is my problem............. She constantly goes on twitter and puts her feelings on there then taking to me. So today she started to taking to some dude (I think her ex). She said, "...I'm ready to talk when you are..." "...there goes my babe☺." I'm not shore what is going on here. She told me she did not want to communication till we got back. She knows that I check her twitter from time to time to see how she is doing (and she checks mines too). Is she trying to make me jealous? Is she stringing me along or something? If so how should I react? I'm pretty mad that she won't talk to me directly, but will subtweet about me daily (I think)... I haven't given her any reason to stop liking/loving me. SO...................... what do you'll think, should I move on or continue to wait? Or am I over thinking this? Thanks a lot, I'm very, very confused... I would love to wait tho... Link to post Share on other sites
NoMagicBullet Posted August 11, 2012 Share Posted August 11, 2012 (edited) Over the summer I tried to keep in touch with her so she knows I still care. She sent me a text saying she did not want to get serious until we got back. So I understood this and have not made any contact with her because she doesn't do long-distance communication with someone she likes and nether do I. ... I'm pretty mad that she won't talk to me directly, but will subtweet about me daily (I think)... I haven't given her any reason to stop liking/loving me. SO...................... what do you'll think, should I move on or continue to wait? Or am I over thinking this? Thanks a lot, I'm very, very confused... I would love to wait tho... I'm confused, too. Why would you not do long-distance communication with someone you like? That makes no sense, unless you are trying to get over them and move on. Or you don't like them that much butdon't have the guts to break things off. And actually, you are sort of communicating anyway via Twitter, which is worse, because it's not real conversation and it muddies everything. Just talking to someone long-distance via a phone call does not mean you are getting serious about the two of you -- it only means that you are serious about communicating clearly. If it was mainly her idea to not call (or even e-mail) each other, then I'd say she wasn't really interested in you but perhaps likes your attention. If this was something you assumed from her statement about not getting serious, then you need to be the one to step up and call her and start actually talking to each other. You do't have that much time before school starts again, right? I say wait it out and ignore her until she contacts you. Edited August 11, 2012 by NoMagicBullet Addition Link to post Share on other sites
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