simplybrill Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 Ex called, well text messaged last night. Said hi, how are you - Wants to go to lunch sometime? Im wondering why he's calling, we're not friends at all, even though Im sure he'd want to be - just so he could stay he's still 'got' me. He loves the fact that he's still in contact with all of his ex's...I think its a power thing. I told him the truth, that Im ok - that Im working 2 jobs and im very busy and honestly dont have the time. His response was: ok, some other time then?? Im thinking, ok did nothing I said penetrate his thick skull?? His ego is so overblown, he still thinks he has a place in my life, even after I pretty much said "listen, I dont have time for you anymore" Why do ex's do this, why is he trying to make me think about him... I was doing FINE until yesterday. Link to post Share on other sites
jw32802 Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 wait, whats your story? how long since he contacted you last? Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 Tell him something like "what do you mean some other time? I have got no time for you, nor do I want to make anywhere in the new future. Bye !!!" this way you'll make it crystal clear that: A. You don't want to see him B. you're not in his power! If he goes on with the messages, just erase them before reading them! HE's not worth it! Cheers, Curly Link to post Share on other sites
jw32802 Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 NOOO dont do that, he will think you are still angry, you want him to think you are fine! dont answer him at all and if he texts you again just say "im going to busy the next few weeks, but maybe in a few weeks" then see if he calls Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplybrill Posted July 14, 2004 Author Share Posted July 14, 2004 I texted him back, saying hey I wasnt trying to be mean by what I said earlier, Im just tired. Was saying that giving him hope? Eegh. Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 Listen, who cares what he's thinking? You don't want to talk to him, to meet him or to see him! So just tell him that! Who cares what he's thinking? If he's playing the power game, he'll come back for more! Then it's your turn to play the ignoring game!!! Just don't dwell that much on what he's thinking, why is he thinking, etc etc. Are you sure you're over this guy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplybrill Posted July 14, 2004 Author Share Posted July 14, 2004 I know this, I have been playing the ignoring him game. I had a great No Contact thing going on for a while there too, Yes im over this guy, ready to move on...He's very toxic and bad for me, Im definitely not trying to get back with him, its very irritating that I want a new guy in my life and this old one is still hangin on tryin to mess with me grrrr Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 Block him. Ignore him. Do not respond. If he actually get through and talks with you just tell him that its over and that you no longer want to see or hear from him, then walk away. If he persists, file a restraining order. Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplybrill Posted July 14, 2004 Author Share Posted July 14, 2004 Thankyou so much, what fantastic responses!!! Im definitely not going to respond if he texts me again, he's so chicken he wont even CALL, its either that or pure un-diluted lazyness on his part. He's so pathetic, oi...anyways... Now the only instance he could try to get to me is if he dropped by my place, or tried talking to me on campus when classes start. He better not try, or he'll have to deal with me being like "u talkin to me?? I dont think so" Link to post Share on other sites
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