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Changing for the better?


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Hello all,

 

First, appreciate any and all feed back. Need to start with background I suppose.

 

2 months ago I was dumped after a 1 and 1/2 year LDR. Communication has always been my downfall. I am a 26 year old male, all of my friends and family would say that I am shy and soft spoken. My boss says I am a man of few words.

 

I have also been broken up with in the past because during fights I become even more quiet. Like I don't know what to say.

 

I think its safe to say understanding my feelings and thoughts and expressing them are something I struggle with in relationships. I have been through a lot of heartache over this one, but Im making sure to learn from my mistakes of not expressing my feelings and not taking for granted what I have in a relationship.

 

My question to you readers, Is this something I can change/work on? In the past I've blammed my personality saying "Thats just how/who I am" But I know I will keep getting hurt in these relationships if I cannot express my feelings. Your responses are greatly appreciated!

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