Anger=guilt?

[robaday]

I confronted my ex gf, who id been seeing for the last month and who had consistently accused me of cheating, why she was on a dating website?

 

She explained she had gone on since the breakup but hadnt used it for awhile. I said how come you logged in last week then? and she said she only goes in to delete emails. She could hear the doubt in my voice, and she just exploded with rage, attacking me for this that and the other.

 

Is that guilt?

[GLDheart]

...she just exploded with rage...

 

Is that guilt?

 

I'd say yes. There have been studies linking shame and aggression. And from personal experience, my ex (drunk at the time as well) went absolutely tazmanian devil on me when I was literally holding the evidence in my hands.

[Silly_Girl]

From experience, yes absolutely. It's always worked that way in my relationships.

[venusianx13]

Yes...I had a 5 year relationship with a guy who ended up being completely dishonest about a lot of things, and any time I confronted him about something, it turned into an explosion of anger. Perhaps a combination of guilt and frustration over being caught in a lie.

[serialgf]

if she is your EX, why do you care? or am i missing something?

[robaday]

"shes my ex why does it matter?" she asked for me back, and during that time, has been incredibly jealous, and also demanding more commitment.

 

I dont care about the dating website thing. I care that she wasnt straight with me - its not fair to accuse someone consistently, when your actively looking at men online.