Nick Diamond Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 When I was a senior in high school, there was this sophomore girl named Julie that I liked. We knew each other, spoke every now and then, but we never really hung out or anything. Anyway, one day, about a month after I graduated, I saw her mom out and we stopped and talked. She told me that Julie really liked me and that she talked about me all the time. This seemed odd to me because Julie has always kind of ignored me. She never responds when I talk to her online, she never waves when I see her out....it's borderline rude behavior. But like a week after I talked to her mom, I was talking to Julie's older sister online, and she told me the exact same thing. She said something like, "Nick, Julie really really likes you....she's just shy." So....after hearing that, I decided to ask her out...twice. The first time, she said she couldn't, but she had a reasonable excuse. The second time, she said she would get back with me, but she never did, and when I would try to call her, she wouldn't answer. So, I took that as an "I don't want to go out with you" response. Well, a couple of months later, she got a boyfriend, and they have been going out close to a year, but they broke up about a month ago. Her and I have talked maybe five times during the past year, but this is what really confuses me..... I heard she liked me.....but she ignored me She gets a bf.....all of a sudden, she's nice to me all the time....she speaks, waves, etc. She breaks up with her bf.....she ignores me again So now she's ignoring me again. She won't talk, wave...anything. Girls are so confusing. This is what I'm thinking: maybe her mom and her sister thought that I would be a good boyfriend for Julie or something, so they told me that stuff, when really, she may not like me. What do you all think? I'd really like to talk to Julie again, face to face, because that's the only way she won't ignore me, but I rarely see her out. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 Originally posted by Nick Diamond is what I'm thinking: maybe her mom and her sister thought that I would be a good boyfriend for Julie or something, so they told me that stuff, when really, she may not like me. What do you all think? I'd really like to talk to Julie again, face to face, because that's the only way she won't ignore me, but I rarely see her out. What should I do? This sounds about right. Call her or approach her when she is out. Tell her that some people keep telling you that she likes you and ask her if she is interested in getting together with you. If she says no, then move on and let her be. If she says yes, then go someplace and discuss it. Tell her you are confused and would be interested in getting to know her on a romantic level if she is, but your heart won't be broken if she says no. Link to post Share on other sites
Thatguy Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 wouldnt going and discussing it kinda ruin things? it gets you answers, but then doesnt it leave an awkward, what now type of feeling? I know from a lot of people ive talked to, talking about it kinda makes it less appealing than figuring it out on accident or what not. I could be wrong tho. As for the poster, thats pretty weird, i dunno why any parent would fabricate bc they like you. I say ask her out when you are physically with her. I can say this but its tough to do as I know i'd probably chicken crap out hah. But thats my 2 pence Link to post Share on other sites
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