Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Why are you all here? Enjoy being single! Your biggest regret will be the time wasted crying over an ex. Let them go! Write it down on your shopping list: bread, cereal, milk, eggs, a new man/woman. It's Monday! Time to shop for someone new! Get excited!! I came here as a dumper looking for advice and realized that almost everyone here is a dumpee. Being dumped is great! Now you don't have to worry about a stalker. You can move on without any strings attached. Do you really think there is only this one person out there for you? If you lived in another city it would have been someone else. So find that someone else! Breakups are God's way of saying thank you for ignoring me. 6
Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 What kind of advice were you looking for?
Sav Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Why are you all here? Enjoy being single! Your biggest regret will be the time wasted crying over an ex. Let them go! Write it down on your shopping list: bread, cereal, milk, eggs, a new man/woman. It's Monday! Time to shop for someone new! Get excited!! I came here as a dumper looking for advice and realized that almost everyone here is a dumpee. Being dumped is great! Now you don't have to worry about a stalker. You can move on without any strings attached. Do you really think there is only this one person out there for you? If you lived in another city it would have been someone else. So find that someone else! Breakups are God's way of saying thank you for ignoring me. Lol. You are such an insensitive person. Do you think people like being dumped out of the blue? To hell with "Being dumped is great". Of course we all know there's someone out there for us, but the wounds are fresh and raw. One day you'll get dumped and someone would tell you "Being dumped is great" and you'll know how much of a slap in the face that is. 9
fucpcg Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 God was involved in my breakup? OMG! I would have thought he'd have more pressing issues to deal with, like the ongoing wars and genocide in Darfur..... 5
Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 God was involved in my breakup? OMG! I would have thought he'd have more pressing issues to deal with, like the ongoing wars and genocide in Darfur..... Who's God? 1
goodbyesunshine Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Wow! Being dumped is so great! I wake up everyday feeling so happy and excited about my grocery list! 6
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Wow! Being dumped is so great! I wake up everyday feeling so happy and excited about my grocery list! You should. Grocery shopping can be unpredictable. Relationships are predictable. Unpredictable is exciting!
KatZee Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 I came here as a dumper looking for advice and realized that almost everyone here is a dumpee. Being dumped is great! Now you don't have to worry about a stalker. You can move on without any strings attached. At what point was this supposed to make any of us feel better? Wait... wait for it... These are my tears I have for you. I feel SO sorry for you that you have a "stalker." Get outta here. 5
thecoolkid Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Hey Breck, Those were some harsh words... Maybe someday when you get involved in a REAL relationship, you'll understand.
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 At what point was this supposed to make any of us feel better? Wait... wait for it... These are my tears I have for you. I feel SO sorry for you that you have a "stalker." Get outta here. This post will make a lot more sense a year from now. Think of me as the future you. You'll be saying 'Breck was right! I wish I didn't waste all that time thinking about my ex. I am happier with (insert name).' Hope tortures the soul. They used to give spies hope to break their spirit and confess. Having hope will torture your human spirit, jade your future relationships, and give you less opportunities to meet the right person. Give up on your past relationship. Move on. Live strong. 1
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Hey Breck, Those were some harsh words... Maybe someday when you get involved in a REAL relationship, you'll understand. Where? I'm just looking out for you. You can travel down the road of self loathing or climb a mountain and grow stronger.
2muchlove Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Where? I'm just looking out for you. You can travel down the road of self loathing or climb a mountain and grow stronger. Speak tha truf!
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Sometimes I wish I could date a squirrel. They don't write 12 paragraphs on why their ex was the one, what they did wrong, what they would change, and should they text or wait. They just continue climbing trees and burying nuts. Dumpers always appreciate a dumpee that is quick to move on. And here's a secret. Dumpers are likely to come back because we're confused why it was so easy for the dumpee to move on and not care.
Hornachero Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 ...I do see Beck's point about being excited for the happiness that is waiting for us in the future. However, most people here (including me) are here to share the deep emotional pain that follows an unwanted breakup and to try to find some solace in other people's experiences and/or kind advice. Some are unexperienced teenagers who have been separated from a loved one and have absolutely no idea what had befallen on them! Others are grown adults who have been through a lot and who are here to find a little inspiration to keep moving forward every day. There is no need to dismiss the pain that is shared by the members of this community. Everyone here is doing his/her best. 1
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 ...I do see Beck's point about being excited for the happiness that is waiting for us in the future. However, most people here (including me) are here to share the deep emotional pain that follows an unwanted breakup and to try to find some solace in other people's experiences and/or kind advice. Some are unexperienced teenagers who have been separated from a loved one and have absolutely no idea what had befallen on them! Others are grown adults who have been through a lot and who are here to find a little inspiration to keep moving forward every day. There is no need to dismiss the pain that is shared by the members of this community. Everyone here is doing his/her best. Part of me likes this advice. Part of me understands where you're coming from. The other part understands that there is only one of me, and I'm monogamous, so inevitably there are going to be billions of broken heart stories and people scrambling around like musical chairs.
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 and then there are people like you.....cockadoodles! i promise you someday you're gonna love someone beyond what you think you're capable of and when that person breaks your heart beyond repair, yeah come here again and talk with that same attitude. K thanks! until then off you go...
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Read my original posts. I was just like you. Weak. Confused. Looking for hope and answers. I learned my lesson. Wish I would have listened to the present Breck.
KatZee Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 This post will make a lot more sense a year from now. Think of me as the future you. You'll be saying 'Breck was right! I wish I didn't waste all that time thinking about my ex. I am happier with (insert name).' Hope tortures the soul. They used to give spies hope to break their spirit and confess. Having hope will torture your human spirit, jade your future relationships, and give you less opportunities to meet the right person. Give up on your past relationship. Move on. Live strong. Hm... I doubt I will EVER think anything that comes out of your mouth makes sense. You seem incredibly cruel and detached. Treat people like objects based on your other thread... but after reading that, I'm fairly certain you're nothing but a little lonely person with nothing much else to do at night besides troll these threads. You also don't know much about me so your "inspirational" words don't really resonate as I don't think much of my ex at all. I'm not here wallowing, more to offer support to others who are hurting. Those people come here to look for those who sympathize with them. Not to just be told to "move on." I think someone else said it. Maybe one day you will actually love a human being. And when that time comes and they drop you like a hot sack of garbage, and your heart is ripped out and stomped on into nothing... you'll come back here and we'll all tell you to move and be glad you don't have a stalker. 1
KatZee Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Read my original posts. I was just like you. Weak. Confused. Looking for hope and answers. I learned my lesson. Wish I would have listened to the present Breck. I honestly hope no one listens to you. Whoever hurt you turned you into a dick. No offense.
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Hm... I doubt I will EVER think anything that comes out of your mouth makes sense. You seem incredibly cruel and detached. Treat people like objects based on your other thread... but after reading that, I'm fairly certain you're nothing but a little lonely person with nothing much else to do at night besides troll these threads. You also don't know much about me so your "inspirational" words don't really resonate as I don't think much of my ex at all. I'm not here wallowing, more to offer support to others who are hurting. Those people come here to look for those who sympathize with them. Not to just be told to "move on." I think someone else said it. Maybe one day you will actually love a human being. And when that time comes and they drop you like a hot sack of garbage, and your heart is ripped out and stomped on into nothing... you'll come back here and we'll all tell you to move and be glad you don't have a stalker. KatZee. I'm not lonely at all. And I've always liked your advice. Especially the one on intoxicating effect. We should be Facebook friends. Maybe even date each other for a month or two. Then I will dump you. 2
Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 I honestly hope no one listens to you. Whoever hurt you turned you into a dick. No offense. I think this is Breck's way of trying to help. Albeit, some of his posts are a little derogatory and not representative of the point he's making. Depending on what stage of grief we're in, we're either going to look at his comments as a slap in the face or one of a strange hope. It's hard to take the "drill sergeant" discipline: "wake up, the relationship sucked", "you'll find someone else, some even better", "he left you, he's gone - never coming back" or the classic "there are plenty of fish in the sea". But all in all, the odds are he's right (not about the ******* your ex's friends part though). I don't think it's coming off as witty or convincing as it could be, but I get what he's doing and for some of us, it might just be that push we needed to get over the last slump. Others that are fresh out of a breakup are going to be offended by his posts, but given time (like he said) you'll realize this relationship was "just another brick in the road", so to speak. We're all going to move on at some point, whether we like it or not. Me? I'll cherish the day because I still haven't arrived there myself. 2
blue_jay_bird Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Well today was the first day i went on here and just really didn't care to be here. I just didn't need it. Normally i have to go though the posts, and make ranting posts. Just a reminder, you will get/feel better. <3
2muchlove Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Well today was the first day i went on here and just really didn't care to be here. I just didn't need it. Normally i have to go though the posts, and make ranting posts. Just a reminder, you will get/feel better. <3 Man I feel like that's a trend today. I'm starting to feel the same way.
Author Breck Posted August 14, 2012 Author Posted August 14, 2012 Well today was the first day i went on here and just really didn't care to be here. I just didn't need it. Normally i have to go though the posts, and make ranting posts. Just a reminder, you will get/feel better. <3 That is a good sign. You're moving forward! When you sound like me, you'll never go back.
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