Foxboro Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 I needed somewhere to vent, this sounds far fetched, but its true. I'm 18 I've had crush on this significantly older married guy for about a year. His job is moving so he is too, I went up to him and told him I was going to miss him. Someone told him I like him and he said "I'm really going to miss you too." I looked down and was getting a little sad. He said "hey, hey you're ok, baby. you're ok." then he pulled my face up to his and we started to kiss. He put my hand on his belt area. I didn't want it to end... He gave me his number and had me call him and we saved each others number. He kissed me one last time before we parted. I'm so sad. I just needed to get this out. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 (edited) How old is he? He sounds gross. That's not a "sweet kiss". When a man kisses a woman for the FIRST TIME and then guides her hand to his crotch....it's safe to say that kiss is communicating purely sexual feelings and is not because he actually has strong emotional feelings for you. It seems as though he realizes you are young and into him and he seems to think it would be fairly easy to have his way with you.... Edited August 14, 2012 by MissBee 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Foxboro Posted August 14, 2012 Author Share Posted August 14, 2012 How old is he? He sounds gross. That's not a "sweet kiss". When a man kisses a woman for the FIRST TIME and then guides her hand to his crotch....it's safe to say that kiss is communicating purely sexual feelings and is not because he actually has strong emotional feelings for you. It seems as though he realizes you are young and into him and he seems to think it would be fairly easy to have his way with you.... Late 30's. I won't see him again after next month, I just feel really bad... Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 Just curious, how does an 18 year old girl find herself in such a situation to grow emotionally attached to a man in his late 30's...? Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 Late 30's. I won't see him again after next month, I just feel really bad... What do you feel bad about? You can chalk it up as a mistake and avoid any kind of contact like that with him from now on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Foxboro Posted August 14, 2012 Author Share Posted August 14, 2012 I feel really bad about doing it, but I really like him... I don't know why it happened, he was just cute. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 I feel really bad about doing it, but I really like him... I don't know why it happened, he was just cute. Well cute is not the end all and be all...tons of people are cute. He's gross. If you feel bad, just don't do it again and leave what happened in the past. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 I feel really bad about doing it, but I really like him... I don't know why it happened, he was just cute. Respect the fact he is married and leave this alone. DO NOT call or email him. Honestly, there's no point in keeping in touch, he's moving. He's married and (has kids?) is older than you, and isn't available to be friends with you. He knows you like him and liked the ego feed. He kissed you (so wrong of him. Imagine YOUR dad kissing an 18 year old, and your mom finding out!) and shouldn't have let that happen. This isn't going anywhere so really try to move on and find a guy closer to your age who is single. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
RRM Posted August 18, 2012 Share Posted August 18, 2012 I'm not suggesting that you do anything with this guy (I would stay away actually) but to compare a guy in his late 30's to someone your dad's age, is a bit of a stretch, IMO. 20 years or so is a big age gap, but I don't know if it's really likely that someone that age would be around your father's age. Link to post Share on other sites
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