O'farrell Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? Link to post Share on other sites
AlexCross Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? If you look hard enough you will perservere Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 Out there, it's just a number's game. Link to post Share on other sites
madjac74 Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 Of course being hot was at the top of the list! I bet he would let the other things slide a bit if he found someone who was hot 6 Link to post Share on other sites
raindrop27 Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 (edited) 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? I give myself 4 and a half out of 6 (I'm not religious and I gave myself half a point for number 5 because although I am very big on family I did give my parents hell when I was a teen..). Also number one is a matter of opinion and down to personal taste. In other words I think it would be fairly easy for you to find somebody with most of these qualities, although I do agree with the person who said that number 4 contradicts number 2 (and also number 3 depending on what is meant by 'religious'!). I know quite a few girls who match your criteria, except number 4. Edited August 14, 2012 by raindrop27 Link to post Share on other sites
Pierre Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? There are lots of women like that among those that are college bound and were educated in a Catholic all girls prep school. Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted August 14, 2012 Share Posted August 14, 2012 You'll find women with all of those qualities in church and other religious events/activities. That's your most likely place to find them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author O'farrell Posted August 14, 2012 Author Share Posted August 14, 2012 If you were born into a strict religious family then you will most likely always be religious no matter how intelligent you are. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted August 15, 2012 Share Posted August 15, 2012 I think you would find a woman like that at church. I know a couple of pretty/cute religious women who can't meet decent men. They go to church regularly. Link to post Share on other sites
Pierre Posted August 15, 2012 Share Posted August 15, 2012 I think you would find a woman like that at church. I know a couple of pretty/cute religious women who can't meet decent men. They go to church regularly. There are girls like that that don't go to church. They usually don't date much because they rather be single than to get together with the wrong guy. Some of these women wait years for Mr. Right without doing a whole lot of dating. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 15, 2012 Share Posted August 15, 2012 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? Yes, I think such women exsist. But I think you are overly locked into your fantasy and your list of qualities about what you want your partner to be that you probably haven't spent too much time thinking about what you offer a woman in return and if your list of qualities really gels with who you are. I also think that you are so locked into your fantasy, even if you found this women, you wouldn't really recongnize her because she will still have flaws despite having a number of amazing qualities too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted August 15, 2012 Share Posted August 15, 2012 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? She does exist but it is impossible to find her because it takes a lot of patience and time to figure out if she has all the emotional/intellectual qualities. In other words, you should become her true friend first. Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolat Posted August 15, 2012 Share Posted August 15, 2012 1. Good looking 2. Intelligent 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) 4. Religious 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. I guess to sum it all up a woman who is hot and wise, considerate and good willed/natured. Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? I've got a 20yo daughter who fits this. She's currently lamenting the lack of men who have a similar list. Link to post Share on other sites
youdunsay Posted August 16, 2012 Share Posted August 16, 2012 Are you sure real men like this type of girls in reality? Nice girls only last in fantasy. Bitches always win. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted August 16, 2012 Share Posted August 16, 2012 Are you sure real men like this type of girls in reality? Nice girls only last in fantasy. Bitches always win. Bitches never win. They either end up with a loser or all alone, either way they remain unhappy because nobody can fix them but themselves. Nice girls always win. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MuscleCarFan Posted August 16, 2012 Share Posted August 16, 2012 Bitches never win. They either end up with a loser or all alone, either way they remain unhappy because nobody can fix them but themselves. Nice girls always win. I just don't understand why dudes stay with bitches. My neighbors next door (look kinda white trash) are ALWAYS arguing and it is ALWAYS her that I hear yelling and swearing. Who puts up with that sh*t?! It must be the sex... Link to post Share on other sites
Abystarswoman Posted August 16, 2012 Share Posted August 16, 2012 (edited) 1. Good looking Impossible to answer, as it's subjective. 2. Intelligent Again, subjective. 3. Recognizes the ills of society-the impact of the media on human behavior, the way the system is set up, possibly interested in psychology to find the causes of things (in other words either very smart of philosophically minded) You'll probably want someone who questions everything. This can be good and bad at the same time. 4. Religious Church activities. Though keep in mind that request #3 may be in direct conflict with request #4 - those who consistently question usually don't find themselves much welcomed in the world of organized religion, heh. 5. Understands the true importance of the parents (in other words very respectful and loving to her parents, so much so that her teen phase didn't include much hate towards them) The adolescent years are typically a time that is filled with rebellion and rebellious acts, so I really don't know that you'll find a person who completely fits this request. You'll probably want someone whose parents are still together (though one can't guarantee 'happiness' in that marriage, keep that in mind). 6. Enjoys the simple things in life because she knows they are forever lasting. Subjective, because what would you (and she) consider "simple things in life"? Can such a woman exist, or am I dreaming? Oh, people like this exist. They're just the equivalent of hitting the Powerball as a sole winner. But you just might get lucky, one never knows. Edited August 16, 2012 by Abystarswoman Clarification. Link to post Share on other sites
GoGlenCoco Posted August 20, 2012 Share Posted August 20, 2012 You might want to try online dating, where you can narrow your search with your checklist. Not even joking. Link to post Share on other sites
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