rosie_girl1984 Posted July 14, 2004 Share Posted July 14, 2004 HI,My boyfriend looks at other girls, I don't really care. but like later on that day we have sex and he starts talking about the girl that it looked at. When we are having sex!!! I mean he talks about my friends and the girls i work with . Well i don't think he care about me. i told him i don't like it before. ] What should i do??? thank you Link to post Share on other sites
sallyhurts Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 try having your bf talking about how him and his ex had sex while you are having sex. ha. Link to post Share on other sites
Nubemeister Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 try having your bf talking about how him and his ex had sex while you are having sex. ha. Funny...but no I guess just let him know that is not exactly something you want to listen to..that's just off to me... Link to post Share on other sites
abbyroadme Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 Exactly, tell him how you feel. If my boyfriend did that....total turn off. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 Next time it happens, tell him again how you feel about it. If it happens again, stop making love in that very moment and inform him he has turned you off. Perhaps this way he'll get it. Link to post Share on other sites
Shasta Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 I agree. If he does it and isn't listening to you, you need to stop having sex with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Grinning Maniac Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 That's...very weird. Your boyfriend is an odd duck. You're telling me while he is literally on top of you going at it, he starts talking about other girls? That's ****ed up lol. The fact that he's thinking, let alone talking about ANYTHING aside from...oh...I dunno...DOING YOU is a bad sign. Definately talk to him. Link to post Share on other sites
blue17 Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 while ur doin it....just start talking about other guys you saw that day....and see how he reacts Link to post Share on other sites
hurricane495 Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 Holy Sh@t i cant believe he does that how immature tell him how you feel or talk to him about his friends while you are intimate I bet he wont like that lol Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 No don't go down to his level. Just tell him I don't like you talking about other girls while your on top of me. Have a little respect. If he does it again kick him off the bed and tell him to take a hike. Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 I guarantee that the next thing he willl talk to you about is if you are open to a threesome. Unless you are into "experimentation" you get away from this guy as quickly as possible. Tell him simply that maybe he should be on his own so that he can experiment sexually with a girl that does not have any feelings for him. My ex (of 7 years) started out the same way with me. I thought immediatly that this guy was a little off but because he really turned me on and physically did all the things to really, really turn me on I would let things slide. 7 years later.........we are not together. He is hooked to internet porn. He is a "regular" at 3 strip joints and I don't want any part of him. He is a pervert! Leave now before he does the unthinkable to your heart. I do no want to even begin telling you the things that I have lived through. I am just glad I got out of the relationship before he did any harm to my young daughter. Bubbles. Link to post Share on other sites
ScottBW Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 Next time he does it, hand him a bottle of lotion and tell him to have at it by himself, Link to post Share on other sites
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