nate7809 Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 I have this girl-friend with whom I have a strange relationship with. We tend to hang out all the time-even to the point where people ask me when the two of us are getting married or dating or whatever. And over the months there is a certain amount of flirting that goes on between us-at least thats what I percieve it to be (touching/pinching me, playing with her hair, talking about future activities, etc). For several weeks she spent almost all her time around me, going to movies, hanging out at my apartment, spending the night, etc. Then for whatever reason, we just quit talking, I felt that she was trying to make me jealous by hanging out with a friend of mine after we had been spending so much time together. Then, after those few weeks, we once again started talking again, once again spending alot time with each other etc.. Just this past week she drove up here from out of town to spend two days with me, just sitting around the apartment hanging out-watching movies, etc. Another night she called to see what was up, drove up here, and was dressed better than I had ever seen her before. She also asked me once if I wanted to go with her to visit her family back home, etc... She also tends to be the one that gets in touch with me, not the other way around. We both never talk about other people we might be interested in, which is strange, if we are just friends. And she has made some off the cuff coments-like one night sarcastically telling me that I wanted her-to which I replied that she read me like book(being sarcastic). She then said ' a page that is unopened' whatever that means. We also went out with some friends of hers one night, one of which was all over me. She proceeded to tell me how this girl had slept with all these guys, etc.. Then we were talking a few days later about something and she made some comment about me liking sluts or whatever. I have had several girl/friends in my life-that I just hung out with, but this just seems to have a weird feeling to it. I mean, none have ever gone so out of the way to hang out with me, etc...but I just don't trust my own judgement. Ok, sorry this was so long. I would certainly apprecaite any of your comments/advice. Link to post Share on other sites
blue17 Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 Well do you like her.....or are you just curious as to how she feels? Link to post Share on other sites
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 Exactly. Would you be interested in pursuing more of a relationship with her or are you just trying to ascertain if she is interested in you? Link to post Share on other sites
wwwazzup Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 either way...if you are interested or not in this girl, you should ask her what she is wanting from you. friends, dating etc. it sounds like to me that she is just an effectionate person and likes spending time with you. regardless if she didn't have contact with you for that week or so (that you mentioned). you both need to have that talk and go from there. there you will find your answer that you have been looking for!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author nate7809 Posted July 15, 2004 Author Share Posted July 15, 2004 Yes, I suppose I do like her, but I don't want to end up looking a fool. Also, I don't really know if she is an overly affectionate person or not, but it just seems strange for her to go so much out of her way to spend so much time with me. I don't know, just confused. Link to post Share on other sites
wwwazzup Posted July 15, 2004 Share Posted July 15, 2004 then ask her the questions then!! it won't make you feel like a fool. wait for her to answer first, before expressing yourself to her, if that will make you feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nate7809 Posted July 16, 2004 Author Share Posted July 16, 2004 I guess your right, I just wish I was a little bit more sure how she felt. Friends often joke about how I should go for it, how she hangs out all the time, etc...but who knows??? Link to post Share on other sites
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 16, 2004 Share Posted July 16, 2004 "Have you ever thought about what it'd be like for us to date?" There ya go. If she says no, then you know she's not interested. Link to post Share on other sites
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