2knives 2 forks

[DragsterWife]

Ok here is my dillema. Hubby has female co-worker named Angie. He keeps mentioning that she wants to come over and burn some cd's on our puter. He asks me if she can spend the night on tuesday b/c weds. a bunch of the people from work were meeting at an amusement park for the day, and it would be "easier". Supposedly this chick is lesbian, but I dont know, never met her.

 

So Monday night he had to pick me up at my mom's after work. I called him at 3 am (got off around 430am) to order some food for him to bring home. He said good thing i called him b/c he was going to denny's with crew from work. I asked him who all was going and he said like 5 guys names. I asked him if Angie was there, and he said no. I called back at 4am and a girl answers the phone at the restaurant. I asked for him and asked him who was that, and he said Angie. Imagine that. He lied to me about it, and for what???

 

Ok so fast forward to tuesday night when he wanted her to stay the night. I had to work 3rd shift, so when they got off work around 430am, I think he brought her to our house. I just had a feeling. He called me at 6am at work to find out what time I was getting off, thats weird thing number one. When I get home at 930am, he's gone already, and there are 2 knives and 2 forks in the sink, with a whole frozen pizza gone, and he has NEVER in 5 yrs ate one alone..... I don't know what to think..... was she there???

[honey2005]

Well it's pretty obvious someone was there, but before you get really upset you need to talk to him. Maybe she spent the night, but nothing happened. But reguardless, he did lie to you about her being with him and the guys. Have you talked to him about that lie yet? If not, you really need to. Maybe nothing has happened between the two of them, and maybe nothing ever will, but you need to find out. He's your husband, you have a right to know what's going on. Tell him how you feel.

[Adunaphel]

Sounds like she was at your place.

It all sounds pretty suspicious...and he lied to you. It possible that nothing happened between them, and he is acting strange. he lied to you, but he allowed her to answer the phone (and let his lie be discovered).

If it was her at your place, why he left the knives and forks in the sink, where you'd see them?

 

Perhaps she really is a lesbian...perhaps she is intrigued by her because she is. Perhaps he has a threesome fantasy and he hopes that you might like her when the three of you meet.

Perhaps he just likes her as a friend.

Perhaps it was a guy eating pizza with him and monday night angie had joined them later.

 

Tell him about the knives and fork in the sink, tell him how you feel and ask what is going on. You have every right to know.

[tiki]

Ok here's my opinion. Your hubby doesn't have any right to have a female over to the home that YOU TWO built together and work your butts off to pay for each month come mortgage time. I don't care if she's a lesbian or not, it's inappropriate and he's playing with fire. Even if she's a lesbian #1) it could be a lie, #2) She could still want to get with your man. Your hubby owes it to you to NEVER bring another woman into that house for any of HIS NEEDS. Friendship or not, that crap would NEVER fly with me. That's just my opinion. I attempt to value marriage.