jw32802 Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 Im sorry but i disagree and a lot of people disagree ~ He was the one that was supposed to change. Im not going to go to him AGAIN telling him what i want, he already knows what i want. I thought you told me you were seeing another guy also while you were going back and forth with your ex, thats why i was asking you. We are not together, so everything i read said that dating is not a bad thing, that dating is just a way of getting out there and rebuilding confidence. oh well, im not going to worry anymore Link to post Share on other sites
unsafe Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 I dated someone off and on as my ex and I were off and on. But the other never wanted me at the same time...until now that is why I have the delima. So I wasn't dating a guy and then my ex came back. I was dating someone we eneded it decided to be friend then the ex came back and that has been the way since. I am not saying don't date. But I totally understand he is the one making you feel not good in the relationship. But you broke up with him. As you have said he has come to you asking for you back saying you are the one. And by saying you are dating someone else and not going to contact him. Leads him to believe that he isn't what you want. If I was him that is what I would think. You have to give him a chance to prove himself and that he will and has changed. I know you slept with him and then you found out about the other girl. Its a sticky situation. go with your heart. IF you heart tells you not to contact don't. If you want to date then date. but if he comes back and says he wants to prove it to you...then you have to give him a chance to show you...things like that don't happen over night. Link to post Share on other sites
nikkicam71 Posted July 21, 2004 Share Posted July 21, 2004 "dating" is not a relationship, Jen...you're FINE. You broke it off b/c he was treating you badly...you're dating casually and trying to move on b/c instead of changing the things that pushed you away in the first place, he got himself into another COMMITTED relationship and is talking marriage! Don't you feel bad for one minute! He LIED to you about this girl, he lied to this girl about you....all he did was reaffirm all of the reasons why you left him!!! BE GLAD YOU AREN'T HER!! Can you imagine how she must have felt to get that phone call, to find out you are an ex of TWO WHOLE YEARS? ~Nikki Link to post Share on other sites
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