I got my ex back, here's how i did it

[lingardx]

While i understand everyone's relationship is different and some things might not apply to the situation you are in i'm going to give you the most honest advice on how i got my ex back. Bit of a long post sorry!

 

We broke up on 11th August.

Due to the fact he lost trust in me because i lied to him - i didn't cheat. but the story of what i done is irrelevant.

 

I had to stay at his on the night we broke up as there was no trains home which made it a lot harder. But the sunday morning came and i got the hell out of there.

 

[i am a constant texter, and having broke up before i got him back by pleading and begging] So i thought i could get him back like this too. [Though it played some part, it didn't help] We were texting all sunday while i was awaiting the train. And even sunday afternoon. But for a few hours each day [Max of 5 hours] i let him be. [No contact is vital if you can stick to your guts] I would text him a huge 5 page text about how i missed him and how sorry i was. He always said "I need time" It was pretty much like this every day. Though i started counselling and i made sure he was aware that i was sorting myself out. I also made sure he knew i was at work [As so he could see i was sitting about feeling sorry for myself]

 

Saturday morning rolled around [A week has now passed] and he suggests i go over to his! I was like yes! Progress. Because something told me in my head it was now or never. I knew if i didn't go and see him then i'd stand no chance of getting him back.

It was a warm day so i decided not to wear my usual jeans and a tshirt. So i went for shorts

I looked as if i'd made an effort

 

As soon as he saw me his eyes were all over me! He made me walk infront of him at times [Totally not subtle!] And i knew that he knew i hadn't wore the shorts for his benefit.

We were alone in a field sunbathing. Talking about normal things, the conversation wasn't about our relationship. We started to throw acorns to see who could aim higher. Anyway progress this on an hour. An he suddenly turned me and said "I've made a decision, I want us to try again aslong as we go slow"

 

And boom! That's it. I saw him last night, and i won't be seeing him until saturday. First dates all over again. Slow and steady wins the race.

 

I'm happy though. Not everyone gets another chance. But i have. And there's no messing it up Good luck to everybody else!