Last year of college. What do I do?

[somedude81]

It's not too weird. Salsa dancing is like a sport. Women dance with different men all the time.

 

My ex was really into Salsa. She'd go to Salsa clubs and dance with like tons of different men. No big deal.

So would your ex have guys drive over to her house, pick her up and then go dancing with her? Just her and a guy.

I would go anyway. Ask her again, just to have fun.

 

How come you're taking Calc? I thought this was your last year.

I'm a business major and Calc is a class that is required for graduation. It's also a prerequisite for another class that is required that I'll be taking next semester.

 

Like an idiot I left those two classes for last.

[somedude81]

I'm so glad you suggested this, SD!!! Really stoked for you. The group thing is a great idea, as she might introduce you to other girls as well.

Actually no, the group thing was a way to cover my ass when she dropped the bomb that she was married.

 

I have zero interest in going out with her, for obvious reasons. So in my opinion, suggesting a group thing is nicer then telling her I don't want to go out.

 

I'm not going to bring it up with her again.

 

Though I will try to go out with some other girls in the class and try to find out if they are single first.

[jobaba]

So would your ex have guys drive over to her house, pick her up and then go dancing with her? Just her and a guy.

 

I'm a business major and Calc is a class that is required for graduation. It's also a prerequisite for another class that is required that I'll be taking next semester.

 

Like an idiot I left those two classes for last.

 

She'd meet up with a guy that she knew to go to the Salsa clubs, just her and him. He was just a friend. I didn't have a problem with that. Salsa is like that. If they were having dinner together, I'd have had a problem with it, maybe.

 

Ah, I see. Calc was a freshman class for me. Science/engineering. I didn't know business majors could wait until the end to take it.

[somedude81]

She'd meet up with a guy that she knew to go to the Salsa clubs, just her and him. He was just a friend. I didn't have a problem with that. Salsa is like that. If they were having dinner together, I'd have had a problem with it, maybe.

 

Yeah that still seems a bit weird.

 

No way I'd want my girl to go out dancing with another guy. Going out with some friends, sure. But one on one, no way.

Ah, I see. Calc was a freshman class for me. Science/engineering. I didn't know business majors could wait until the end to take it.

As a business major, Calc is the only math class I need to take and there is only one required class that has Calc as a prerequisite. So those two can be taken any time. Though it probably would have been smarter to take them my second year or something. Not when I'm getting down to crunch time. Especially since I've ALWAYS had trouble with math.

 

What really bugs me is that the first meeting of the Salsa club on campus is happening right now, and I'm stuck at home studying for this stupid test.