eric4freedy Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 Well, I think its better if I start from the beginning. I just turned 18 this past week and to celebrate, my friend and his family invited me onto a cruise with them. Expecting what ever any other testosterone filled 18 guy would want to achieve on a cruise, i wanted to find a girl and get a little nasty. But what ended up happening was something i would never imagine in a million years. I fell in love with this extremely beautiful, charming, and adorable 17 year old South African girl. And I know its hard to believe that you can fall head over heals for someone in a mere 5 days but it happened. Now I am stuck with what I think is the hardest decision of my life. Since we've got off the boat we've been exchanging heartfelt texts and we even talked about the idea of marriage one day but only very vaguely. I cant get her out of my mind! I NEED ANYONE'S HELP THAT HAS EXPERIENCE WITH THIS ODD SITUATION. The good news is she is visiting the city i live in a few days and her family is possibly buying a summer house here. But I feel like its going to be so tough keeping a relationship alive when we only see each other once or twice a year. But i feel our love was so strong that its worth a shot! Link to post Share on other sites
meeji Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 Falling in love in 5 days sounds crazy. Maybe you really fell into lust. Sometimes the excitment of a new relationship can feel like love bc its pretty intense. I think you should go for it. If you feel like your love for each other is strong enough to make it, why not.? Go for it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
yessy21 Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 Anything is possible.... Love has no Barriers. Love is patient. Love is Kind. If she can only come down there 2wice a year. you go up there 3 times. you can go for a weekend. make saving a little every check a priority for you. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted August 26, 2012 Share Posted August 26, 2012 So, she lives in South Africa. Where do you live? I don't think you can arrange weekends as someone suggested. Hahah Link to post Share on other sites
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