bluegreen Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 Support what you don't believe in How ? How do you support your s/o in something you don't believe in at or have 100% different view or opinion on it then him-her. Its a "seriously ugly his family issue" its causing him all kinds of trouble and heartache my honest opinion on "issue" its disgust anxiety and worry which of course cause more arguments and even more stress for both of us. He can't and won't abandon the issue and am not asking him to but I disagree with him on almost every aspect if it not on purpose of course am just person who knows how to hide feelings or opinions yet in a way to support him he needs me to do that. Any smart non judgmental advice's please we both are miserable here Link to post Share on other sites
Aquamelon Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 Is it so hard to agree to disagree? My boyfriend and I share opposing views on multiple topics but we don't argue about it. Let him vent to you if he needs to but don't give him your opinion. You both are aware of each other's view on the topic so there is no need to bring up the argument time and time again. Learn to be supportive without supporting the cause yourself. If he says something that triggers you to feel like you need to let you opinion out simply cut it down to, "Well you know how I feel about that" or something similar. Link to post Share on other sites
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