Emilia Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 Cause I have eyes, walk outside your house. Most couples feature people who are very similar to each other So your personal observations count as 'scientific facts'? Link to post Share on other sites
AlexDP Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 Are fat girls supposed to act differently than girls of other weight classes? Maybe that's the custom in your land (or planet, as I am starting to suspect) , but here on "Americun Soil" our weight is not supposed to determine how we behave. Also, old women and single moms don't have to adhere to a particular code of behavior. What kind of a loser bothers to be concerned about the weight of other people and their behavior in relationship to their weight? Dude, that's just … pathetic. Maybe you aren't a fat old single mom, but I'd bet big bucks that you have plenty of things of your own to be concerned about. They can behave any way they want, but when you couple their obesity with personality disorders and an entitlement complex, it does get annoying. They're just not nice people to be around. But hey, I just avoid them and that's that. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 They can behave any way they want, but when you couple their obesity with personality disorders and an entitlement complex, it does get annoying. They're just not nice people to be around. But hey, I just avoid them and that's that. Nobody was talking about personality disorders, just about how outrageous it is for American fat or old women, or single mothers, to behave as they choose in public with their "handicaps." Evidently they should be cloistered, according to this perspective. That's just weird. So, according to YOUR perspective, are fat women with "personality disorders" and "entitlement complexes" in a different and more annoying category than average or skinny women with them? Just my own opinion, but I think that's weird too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillReigning Posted August 24, 2012 Author Share Posted August 24, 2012 I look at myself, too There's a whole lot of people on this site who will blame EVERYTHING except themselves for everything that happens to them in the dating world Men want 20 year olds, men want supermodels. Women want male models, women want 6'5 guys. It's all nonsense. Why is it so hard for people to admit that their struggles are most likely their own fault? There's no reason why you can't find somebody who is about the equivalent of you Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 Why is it so hard for people to admit that their struggles are most likely their own fault? There is some truth to that, though I would hesitate to "blame" or assign "fault." There's no reason why you can't find somebody who is about the equivalent of you Here you've veered into ILLOGICAL territory. A person denying that their dating problems stem from somewhere within themselves is not related at all to "finding somebody who is about the equivalent of you." I think YOU have dating struggles, right? Well, why aren't you happily canoodling with your own equivalent right now if it's that simple? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillReigning Posted August 24, 2012 Author Share Posted August 24, 2012 I think YOU have dating struggles, right? Well, why aren't you happily canoodling with your own equivalent right now if it's that simple? Because of my own failures Am I not the only damn person on this site or seemingly in this world who takes responsibility for his own problems/failures? I'm not saying there's anything wrong with struggling or not having success but at least take responsibility for it. Unless you were born hideously ugly (which is very rare), you have control of your own life Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillReigning Posted August 24, 2012 Author Share Posted August 24, 2012 Because his own experiences are scientific fact. I have seen studies about people dating people in their own league in the past but I must admit I can't find them now In any case, you shouldn't need scientific proof to see which way the wind blows. A goddamn retarded monkey can see that the overwhelming majority of couples feature folks in about the same "league" in the important areas How many 45 year old chubby dudes do you know dating 21 year old models? Go walk outside your house and closely observe couples. Majority of them are very similar in many areas. I've observed couples in probably 15 different cities and saw the same thing over and over and over again Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 I have seen studies about people dating people in their own league in the past but I must admit I can't find them now There's a documentary, The Science of Sex Appeal, that has a segment on it. Link to post Share on other sites
AlexDP Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 Nobody was talking about personality disorders, just about how outrageous it is for American fat or old women, or single mothers, to behave as they choose in public with their "handicaps." Evidently they should be cloistered, according to this perspective. That's just weird. So, according to YOUR perspective, are fat women with "personality disorders" and "entitlement complexes" in a different and more annoying category than average or skinny women with them? Just my own opinion, but I think that's weird too. Well yeah, obviously. If they're attractive, men tend to let things slide. I still find them way too annoying to date though. But yes, I will go for a pretty girl with a nice personality, not for a fat girl with a nice personality. Link to post Share on other sites
Ross MwcFan Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 I genuinley find a lot of below average looking women to be way more attractive than super model types. Dont know why, but I know most people would think I'm crazy for this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillReigning Posted August 25, 2012 Author Share Posted August 25, 2012 I genuinley find a lot of below average looking women to be way more attractive than super model types. Dont know why, but I know most people would think I'm crazy for this. nothing wrong with that, go after whoever you like I personally think Chubby Chasers are insane but if that's what they like, more power to them and I wouldn't say a bad word to them in real life Link to post Share on other sites
irc333 Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 The problem is....people can't have it both ways. Really attractive people, cannot really have the characteristics they're lookingfor in a mate. A very attractive man is more likely to cheat and not likely to be even loyal, leaving his g/f in tears, where an unattractive or Average Joe is less likely to be this way, because he's humbled by his appearance. Hot women have no reason to be nice, and are a bit more abrasive, because they know they can get away with it simply because they are pretty...while Plain janes tend to be humbled by their appearance, and make up for it in their personality. No one can have it BOTH ways. If they are..they're already married. Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillReigning Posted August 25, 2012 Author Share Posted August 25, 2012 The problem is....people can't have it both ways. Really attractive people, cannot really have the characteristics they're lookingfor in a mate. A very attractive man is more likely to cheat and not likely to be even loyal, leaving his g/f in tears, where an unattractive or Average Joe is less likely to be this way, because he's humbled by his appearance. Hot women have no reason to be nice, and are a bit more abrasive, because they know they can get away with it simply because they are pretty...while Plain janes tend to be humbled by their appearance, and make up for it in their personality. No one can have it BOTH ways. If they are..they're already married. Not true in the slightest bit. I know tons of attractive folks who are nice and loyal 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 How many 45 year old chubby dudes do you know dating 21 year old models? Go walk outside your house and closely observe couples. Majority of them are very similar in many areas. I've observed couples in probably 15 different cities and saw the same thing over and over and over again lol, I don't think it's about these men being able to get those women but rather just chasing them. This summer I got so many much older guys commenting on me or even chasing me on streets that I even made a thread about it. Apparently a lot if not most men think their age doesn't matter at all and shouldn't make a difference in their desirability. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted August 25, 2012 Share Posted August 25, 2012 The problem is....people can't have it both ways. Really attractive people, cannot really have the characteristics they're lookingfor in a mate. A very attractive man is more likely to cheat and not likely to be even loyal, leaving his g/f in tears, where an unattractive or Average Joe is less likely to be this way, because he's humbled by his appearance. Hot women have no reason to be nice, and are a bit more abrasive, because they know they can get away with it simply because they are pretty...while Plain janes tend to be humbled by their appearance, and make up for it in their personality. No one can have it BOTH ways. If they are..they're already married. Not true at all. The hottest couple I know is madly in love, and very family focused. They both just happen to be beautiful--inside and out! Link to post Share on other sites
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