Yeah, even geeky girls care about the physical

[irc333]

Typically, I keep an eye out for "Sci-Fi" or in their headliner "Nerdy Girl seeks Nerdy Guy!"

 

Some would even quote movies scenes in their profile that only REAL geeks can understand.

 

This one has a specific in her profile about her passion for "Joss Whedon" and Marvel Comics.

 

But later says in her profile 'He must be taller than me in heels, or it won't work". And she said, "Also, if it looks like I can kick your butt, then it probably wouldn't work either."

 

I ignored that part anyways, and sent her a contact email...even tried to get her into a conversation on certain movie specifics about what Joss Whedon had done up until this point.

 

Tried to engage similar niche conversations.

 

And she replied, "Sorry, thanks for the email, but I don't think we'd make a good match."

 

And I replied, "REally, not even with us being Joss Whedon fans? LOL"

 

She goes, "No, sorry".

 

I somehow got the vibe she wasn't a real geek at that point, but more of a wanna-be geek, because most of her attire was more upscale and she resided in a more upscale part of town.

 

But at any rate, finding a FEMALE geek over 35 is a hard find indeed. SO maybe they're more demanding in the middle aged population?

[Imajerk17]

If you actually want this thread to go to a constructive suggestion, maybe you could post your profile--or at least the text thereof.

[Art_Critic]

You ignored the parts in her profile about her match being taller than her in heels and not looking like she could kick his butt and you are surprised that you were told you weren't a match..

Being geeky doesn't mean that a person will not have personal tastes of attractiveness..

 

You really should fine tune your OLD skills if you expect to find a match for you.

 

The shotgun approach with no adjustment never works.

[Pierre]

You ignored the parts in her profile about her match being taller than her in heels and not looking like she could kick his butt and you are surprised that you were told you weren't a match..

Being geeky doesn't mean that a person will not have personal tastes of attractiveness..

 

You really should fine tune your OLD skills if you expect to find a match for you.

 

The shotgun approach with no adjustment never works.

 

I have never seen a geeky or nerdy girl in high heels. She may not be a geek.

 

Many male geeks tend to be skinny and small body. She seems to despise that. This is another sign she was not a geek.

[xxoo]

I somehow got the vibe she wasn't a real geek at that point, but more of a wanna-be geek, because most of her attire was more upscale and she resided in a more upscale part of town.

 

Why would a 35+ woman be a "wannabe" geek?

 

She could just as easily be turned off by your profile as she was by your physical appearance. If she has a sophisticated side, she's probably looking for that in a man, too.

[Caius Ballad]

Typically, I keep an eye out for "Sci-Fi" or in their headliner "Nerdy Girl seeks Nerdy Guy!"

 

Some would even quote movies scenes in their profile that only REAL geeks can understand.

 

This one has a specific in her profile about her passion for "Joss Whedon" and Marvel Comics.

 

But later says in her profile 'He must be taller than me in heels, or it won't work". And she said, "Also, if it looks like I can kick your butt, then it probably wouldn't work either."

 

I ignored that part anyways, and sent her a contact email...even tried to get her into a conversation on certain movie specifics about what Joss Whedon had done up until this point.

 

Tried to engage similar niche conversations.

 

And she replied, "Sorry, thanks for the email, but I don't think we'd make a good match."

 

And I replied, "REally, not even with us being Joss Whedon fans? LOL"

 

She goes, "No, sorry".

 

I somehow got the vibe she wasn't a real geek at that point, but more of a wanna-be geek, because most of her attire was more upscale and she resided in a more upscale part of town.

 

But at any rate, finding a FEMALE geek over 35 is a hard find indeed. SO maybe they're more demanding in the middle aged population?

 

That's just how it is bro. Life as a geek or an Omega male is extremely lonely and can drive you mad. Most people here can't understand your suffering. Men can love women of all sizes but females instinctively always want the tall strong guy. That's why female porn is limited to Tall, dark and handsome.

 

(Btw MOST if not all women are FAKE geeks. They are never deeply into the details of our subjects. Most of them are just attention whores)

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[Art_Critic]

That's why female porn is limited to Tall, dark and handsome.

 

 

... you ever seen Ron Jeremy.. pudgy, hairy, short, some would say quite ugly and a big dick...

 

Does porn really belong in this discussion ???

[Caius Ballad]

... you ever seen Ron Jeremy.. pudgy, hairy, short, some would say quite ugly and a big dick...

 

That's just porn for men. Women doing porn do it for the cash.

 

Porn made for women ONLY always has the same old generic Tall, dark and handsome. Go read 50 shades of gray = female book porn.

[irc333]

That's just how it is bro. Life as a geek or an Omega male is extremely lonely and can drive you mad. Most people here can't understand your suffering. Men can love women of all sizes but females instinctively always want the tall strong guy. That's why female porn is limited to Tall, dark and handsome.

 

(Btw MOST if not all women are FAKE geeks. They are never deeply into the details of our subjects. Most of them are just attention whores)

 

Yeah, she had more of a "sex in the city" way about her. I did recently send an email to a woman that was a bit more down to earth looking, pretty eyes and smile....but not a trendy dresser and would have no quams about not shopping at only outlets.

 

Talked about LOTR, Harry Potter, and of course how she "Squealed" in parts of "The Avengers"

 

So we'llsee what happens there.

 

But you're right, some of us geeky guys tend to be not as picky when it comes to looks....unless of course you're like me (true story), I was at a Star Trek convention.

 

There was this one woman in front of me, obese, big woman, grey hair...obviously in her 50's. I heard her fart, and me and my friend go, "Did she just fart?"

 

And she did it again! LOL

 

At there was kind of a cute plain looking woman, she could've put on some make-up, in her star fleet uniform...had glasses. But when I tried to engage in conversation with her, she seemed a bit "slow" if you know what I mean. She would kind of stare at me blankly, smile a little and nod or go "yeah".

 

I was like "ooookay"

 

And no, she didn't have a not interested "vibe" that she was trying to blow me off...but she didn't seem to be playing with a full deck.

 

Sorry rambling I suppose.

[Arabella]

I have never seen a geeky or nerdy girl in high heels. She may not be a geek.

 

Many male geeks tend to be skinny and small body. She seems to despise that. This is another sign she was not a geek.

 

Nonsense!

 

Major girl geek here. I work in IT so I am highly technical and interested in computers, read fantasy novels, play MMOs, love all kinds of nerdy TV shows and a long etc....

 

And yet?

 

I am feminine, love to dress up, going out in the evenings, and yes, I also love to have a man who appreciates these things.

 

Being a nerd/geek doesn't mean that we're not women!

 

-A

[xxoo]

There was this one woman in front of me, obese, big woman, grey hair...obviously in her 50's. I heard her fart, and me and my friend go, "Did she just fart?"

 

And she did it again! LOL

 

At there was kind of a cute plain looking woman, she could've put on some make-up, in her star fleet uniform...had glasses. But when I tried to engage in conversation with her, she seemed a bit "slow" if you know what I mean. She would kind of stare at me blankly, smile a little and nod or go "yeah".

 

I was like "ooookay"

 

And no, she didn't have a not interested "vibe" that she was trying to blow me off...but she didn't seem to be playing with a full deck.

 

Sorry rambling I suppose.

 

But they were "real" geeks, so slow, old, obese, and gassy shouldn't matter.

 

See how ridiculous that is?

[USMCHokie]

But they were "real" geeks, so slow, old, obese, and gassy shouldn't matter.

 

See how ridiculous that is?

 

So does this mean that OP's entire premise does not apply to male geeks?!?!

[irc333]

But they were "real" geeks, so slow, old, obese, and gassy shouldn't matter.

 

See how ridiculous that is?

 

Hey,I learn to hold it in in public lol

[carhill]

Short of being comatose, nearly every person, man or woman, cares to some degree about the physical appearance of others, especially relevant to desiring to have that appearance up close and personal during sex. Think of it as a function of human nature and reproduction.

 

There are plenty of older female 'geeks' out there, often found driving minivans taking their kids to activities. Appearances are not what make a person a geek, though for some appearance is part of the definition. It's how one feels and what interests one pursues privately which define that. The older lady at the geek convention could very well be married and a grandmother. People are multi-faceted.

 

Sorry you missed. Keep trying. It'll work out.

[eleanorhurting]

Hey,I learn to hold it in in public lol

 

What is it with you and farting?

 

People fart. It happens. Sometimes you can't help it.

 

I agree with the other posters. Maybe you should post your profile for constructive criticism. Maybe making it more attractive could help you. Maybe there is something in it that is turning men off

[carhill]

A lady never passes wind, nor should she drop her kids off at the pool in a way which draws attention to that act

 

[irc333]

What is it with you and farting?

 

People fart. It happens. Sometimes you can't help it.

 

I agree with the other posters. Maybe you should post your profile for constructive criticism. Maybe making it more attractive could help you. Maybe there is something in it that is turning men off

 

No need, I had presented my profile to others through other resources, and they said it looked okay, nothing off putting, included enough detail and wasn't too vague like most canned profiles I've seen myself.

 

They did advise me to take out a negative statement I had in my profile, which I did.

[Jethro]

Yeah, there are no hot geeks out there...

 

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-EoYyG85rDOs/TVapJKyUZMI/AAAAAAAADT0/R9TVbv7iPUo/s1600/kari+byron+hot1.jpg

[Mme. Chaucer]

What is it with you and farting?

 

People fart. It happens. Sometimes you can't help it.

 

I agree with the other posters. Maybe you should post your profile for constructive criticism. Maybe making it more attractive could help you. Maybe there is something in it that is turning men off

 

And women, too!

 

Seriously.

 

A shared interest in a fictional character won't trump physical attraction -

 

if the fat and farty old lady liked "Joss Whedon" as much as you do, would you have been ready to overlook her physical characteristics?

 

Honestly. Why don't you understand that it works for women just the same way it works for YOU?

[irc333]

And women, too!

 

Seriously.

 

A shared interest in a fictional character won't trump physical attraction -

 

if the fat and farty old lady liked "Joss Whedon" as much as you do, would you have been ready to overlook her physical characteristics?

 

Honestly. Why don't you understand that it works for women just the same way it works for YOU?

 

Well, let me put it this way, I figured having such a unique "niche'" that most women over 35 don't care for....would be an "in" to an icebreaker.

 

USUALLY, the attractive geeks are married or taken. There's a rather attractive woman, early 40's, highly athletic, but a bit narcassitic in her profile pictures....she nudes on the site...but their partial nudes...like her shoulder with her looking to the side, eyes closed.

 

You don't see any private parts, and one pic of her back, flexing her back muscles.

 

Another picture of her in a Bat Girl, leather outfit...seen her locally on quite a few dating sites. She's a BIG time geek, been single for a while, and I was kind of suprised with all the public contact she gets, going to the conventions, she'd be getting approached all the time.

 

Someone told me in her circle of geeky friends that she's actually familiar with, are all married or taken...apparently she's the only single geeky girl in her social circle.

 

But, from the sounds of her profile, she's seeking an Alpha male, you know the GQ type, ambitious AND successful, and working at a Comic Shop probably wouldn't impress her. If you owned a Comic shop MAYBE you'd impress her.

 

The last guy she dated was long distance, had connections to red carpet premieres of said geeky movies, and got to meet people on set.

 

So yeah, if you got connections to Will Wheaton, Kate Beckinsale (from the Vampire movies) for example, you might have an "in". lol

[irc333]

Yeah, there are no hot geeks out there...

 

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-EoYyG85rDOs/TVapJKyUZMI/AAAAAAAADT0/R9TVbv7iPUo/s1600/kari+byron+hot1.jpg

 

 

Meh, people are trying to "Sexify" every interest. They're starting to throw in Token HOT chicks in ALL TV shows

 

IE this one from "Hog Hunters"

 

While the men around her are on their last TOOTH and their last pack 'o chew, she's turning heads

I think the trend is to market sex into EVERYthing.

 

I think some companies hire "booth babes" to wear a Supergirl outfits at conventions, even though they probably don't even know the name of Superman's girlfriend.

[somedude81]

From my experiences, and what I've heard about, a geek girl would rather be with a very good looking guy who doesn't match any of her geek hobbies, instead of being with an average to slightly below average guy that can geek out.

 

And in my case, I'm only saying slightly below average because of my height.

[USMCHokie]

From my experiences, and what I've heard about, a geek girl would rather be with a very good looking guy who doesn't match any of her geek hobbies, instead of being with an average to slightly below average guy that can geek out.

 

It's no different from the geeky guy trying to bring a Penny into his group of geeky friends to become the king of the geeks...the geeky girl will try to bring her own GQ knight to reign as queen of the geeks...

[udolipixie]

Not surprising to me that even geeky gals care about the physical when even geeky guys do.

 

Amusing how it often guys are shocked gals want physical attractiveness as if gals should be romantically/sexually interested in him because he thinks so.

 

I highly doubt a geek gals over 35 is more demanding in the middle aged population rather than you ignore gal's preferences thinking similar niches should override her preferences/criteria. I doubt you'd think you're demanding if a gal that didn't fit any of your preferences/criteria other than being a geek thought you'd be a good match solely based on being a geek.

[Titanwolf]

Yeah, why wouldn't they?. Having specified interests doesn't erase their humanity. They're still wired to be attracted to what biologically them.

 

Off-topic: Anime is where it's at. Geeks FTW!!