Author Ugh1 Posted September 1, 2012 Author Share Posted September 1, 2012 GLDHeart - that's awesome! LOL You sound like a GREAT guy! The fact that you destroyed that because you were moving on and into your next relationship is very honorable (and you weren't even asked or caught with it.) Character is what you do when you think nobody is watching. You have good character. I would like to think that with time, my man would've done just that, but unfortunately I will never know now. Oh well, you are right... sometimes they aren't the devil, just dumb to what women feel. (How did you get so smart about women?) Thank you so much for your advise on this topic. There were such extreme reactions from people, but you always gave a very grounded response. I appreciate that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ugh1 Posted September 1, 2012 Author Share Posted September 1, 2012 And I guess strongnrelaxed deleted all that hateful crap about all women being liars off of here because it is all gone now. Maybe I just caught him in a A-hole moment when he was ranting on here about court and how I should be begging for forgiveness and he reconsidered his comments. Link to post Share on other sites
GLDheart Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 And I guess strongnrelaxed deleted all that hateful crap about all women being liars off of here because it is all gone now.. Hah.. I'd say a MOD waved the magic wand. And thank you for your compliments. You come across as a very secure woman handling a pain the ass situation very well. Forgive your man. This won't be his last bonehead move :-) Sometimes us guys need a little slack. p.s. when you get PM privelages shoot me that email. I'll get you that book. It's good stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ugh1 Posted September 1, 2012 Author Share Posted September 1, 2012 What is MOD? AND OP? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ugh1 Posted September 1, 2012 Author Share Posted September 1, 2012 so many Acronyms! sheeesh! and I didn't know you get PM priviledges. Is there a place to read up on how this site works Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 (edited) What is MOD? AND OP? Moderator.. a behind the scenes person here on LS with the power to clean up posts and reprimand posters for not posting in acordance with the terms of service here. Original Poster.. or Post http://www.loveshack.org/forums/faq.php?s=&do=search&q=acr&match=all&titlesonly=0 I think you get PM privy's after about 150 posts and being here 30 days... unless of course you pay for a subscription, then you get on privy's right away Edited September 1, 2012 by Art_Critic Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Moderator.. a behind the scenes person here on LS with the power to clean up posts and reprimand posters for not posting in acordance with the terms of service here. Original Poster.. or Post LoveShack.org Community Forums - FAQ I think you get PM privy's after about 150 posts and being here 30 days... unless of course you pay for a subscription, then you get on privy's right away From my experience, they say you get PMs after 30 days and 100 posts but I got them at 50 posts and I think others have as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ugh1 Posted September 1, 2012 Author Share Posted September 1, 2012 Well, I want to officially thank the moderator for removing his mean, hate-filled comments. No need to flat out tell me that all women are liars and that biologically they can't help lying to the men they are with. I also want to thank all of you for your help with my conundrum. I finally, relunctantly, took everyone's basic advise (talking to him) and I immediately felt better. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Good luck. Hope to see you around the boards. And I hope your partner lives and honest and authentic life. Based on his reaction, I think the jury is still out and you seem smart enough to know that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ugh1 Posted September 2, 2012 Author Share Posted September 2, 2012 Thank you! I am kindof addicted to this site now. I have lots of opinions for people and I am ready to share. Link to post Share on other sites
strongnrelaxed Posted September 2, 2012 Share Posted September 2, 2012 If I live to be 110 I don't think that will be long enough to understand men. They baffle the Sh** out of me. There is such a huge double standard when it comes to them. They can look and lust after other women, and it is "normal." We look and lust after other men, and we are whores. (not that I think most women do this... I really think most women give alot more in a relationship than men do) *sorry guys... this is just my perception I have to agree with you Ugh. This is a very sad thing. These sexual and gender norms have evolved over time for some good reasons and some not-so-good reasons. I think that men and women should be more equal and honest in this regard. Women are as attracted to men in the same ways that men are. I just think that men are a bit more visually oriented. I could go on a long rant about this supporting your position. But I think that if we would all just see each other as human beings and give each other a freaking break we would all be better off. This is not realistic and perhaps not even possible, but it is where I am in my life these days. Any woman in my life is going to get a break. Live your life and I will live mine and if we stack up enough awesome memories together we can die happy before either one of us realizes how screwed up the other sex is! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ugh1 Posted September 3, 2012 Author Share Posted September 3, 2012 I agree. I figure I will just live my life too and see where it takes me. If I can tolerate him and he can tolerate me, then maybe we are supposed to be companions. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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