Gmoney298 Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 I'm 26 and she's 21. We dated for almost 1 1/2 yrs and moved into together. We broke up several months ago after a huge fight of her accusing me of cheating and somewhat remained in contact after. Immediately after we broke up she was seeing another guy and later found she had cheated on me with him. We haven't spoken in about 6 months until a few weeks ago I gave her a call to see how she was doing. Since that call we've hooked up a few times while she's still with the guy that she cheated on me with. She says she loves me and misses me; they weren't fighting at all when her and I hooked up but they've been recently. Until the other day; they made amends but she says I can still contact her whenever her boyfriend is at work. Was she just hooking up with me because she misses me; or was I her comfort factor for her? Also does she possibly still love fore reals or is she loading me up with bull**** and playin me. She's said that she's not good enough for me however I still love the girl. Do I just drop out of the scene and let it be or do I keep contacting her. Let her call me; or should I just wait and see how her relationship goes before I even do anything else? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted August 23, 2012 Share Posted August 23, 2012 You've already got a whole long thread with many replies here, posted on the 17th. why are you doing this again...?! Link to post Share on other sites
PixieD Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 Sorry to rain on your parade.. but if she cheated on you with him when things between you were fine, and she's cheating on him with you when they weren't fighting, then she's got a definite pattern of just using who ever is handy for a booty call. And my guess is that she is willing to tell either of you what ever she thinks you need to hear to get what she wants. The best predictor of future behavior is past patterns. Link to post Share on other sites
alexandria35 Posted August 24, 2012 Share Posted August 24, 2012 It's not just that she cheated on you, it's that she had the utter audacity to accuse you of the very thing she was actually doing. That should scare you. She is either a mental case or she is one nasty b*tch. And now she has so little respect for you that she's using you right to your face. Get a grip and move the hell on. Link to post Share on other sites
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