This guy brags about how great a lover he is

[Jill]

I've been corresponding with this guy on the internet for about a month and he tells me he has a really high sex drive because he can't help having lots of women. He told me I had a lower sex drive than him because I criticized that fact that he sometimes uses women just for sex, but I have control.

 

He still insisted that his sex drive was higher than mine. How can someone on-line be sure? Why would he have the need to tell me anyhow? If he is so great, why does he look on-line? We went thru some fantasies about if we met, what we would do, where we would go, what we would eat, ect. and when it came to music I listed lost of sensual classical composers that I like. He responed that I didn't know what good f-- music was and that he would have to teach me. I got so riled up and agry I was at a loss of words to write back.... What would you suggest I write?

[Paulie]

Just by reading the Heading on your post, I can tell you to write this guy off. After reading the post, I don't know how anybody in their right frame of mind could possibly even entertain the thought of staying with somebody like this.

[Annie]

Jill, what is this guy's name? Sounds like my exboyfriend.

 

Now,if he uses women just for sex - what is that telling you? He will use you too. If you are looking for a good relationship, he doesn't sound like one you could trust.

 

Women emotionally bond with a man after sex. Sounds like he isn't into wanting a committed relationship with anyone.

 

Just looking for sex.

 

Personally, I wouldn't respond to him at all. I think you are setting yourself up for a heartache.

 

My exboyfriend bragged about how good he was too. Guess what? He WAS. But, you have to understand - that probably came from all the practice he had with women. And, yes he met most of them online. There are players out there - the trick is if you don't want to get burned - don't play with fire.

 

Hope this helps.

I've been corresponding with this guy on the internet for about a month and he tells me he has a really high sex drive because he can't help having lots of women. He told me I had a lower sex drive than him because I criticized that fact that he sometimes uses women just for sex, but I have control. He still insisted that his sex drive was higher than mine. How can someone on-line be sure? Why would he have the need to tell me anyhow? If he is so great, why does he look on-line? We went thru some fantasies about if we met, what we would do, where we would go, what we would eat, ect. and when it came to music I listed lost of sensual classical composers that I like. He responed that I didn't know what good f-- music was and that he would have to teach me. I got so riled up and agry I was at a loss of words to write back.... What would you suggest I write?

[Deejette]

It amazes me how many guys are out there on the internet looking for sex, especially in this age of AIDS. They don't understand that just bragging about how great you are in bed is not really great foreplay for a female. Don't they get that we need to know the person first? That it's not just about two sacks of flesh rubbing up against one another.

 

I agree that he must be a loser if he can't meet people face to face and must go on line to do his booty calls. He also has the nerve to think that he can teach you about what good music is. Let him find some other person who may be desperate enough for attention that they will have sex with a stranger.

 

The guys that are looking for a free lay over the internet are cheap, because they are using girls to be their whores, without paying them for the goods.

Jill, what is this guy's name? Sounds like my exboyfriend. Now,if he uses women just for sex - what is that telling you? He will use you too. If you are looking for a good relationship, he doesn't sound like one you could trust. Women emotionally bond with a man after sex. Sounds like he isn't into wanting a committed relationship with anyone. Just looking for sex. Personally, I wouldn't respond to him at all. I think you are setting yourself up for a heartache. My exboyfriend bragged about how good he was too. Guess what? He WAS. But, you have to understand - that probably came from all the practice he had with women. And, yes he met most of them online. There are players out there - the trick is if you don't want to get burned - don't play with fire. Hope this helps.

[Tony T]

There is a utility online, shareware I believe, that measures in decibels and richter scale the amount of sex drive a person has using a combination of factors, including the force they use to press the keys on their keyboard, the rapidity with which they surf the net, the number of porn sites visited in a predetermined period of time, etc.

 

I don't know what the URL is but I will post it when I find it.

 

If you want to test your sex drive scientifically in a short period, go to the following site:

 

http://www.funnygreetings.com/eyes.htm

 

If you can get the eyes to stop following you, you are the sexiest person on earth.

 

I think you have brought up a very critical question here, one that is extremely important to any friendship or association. If this guy has a far higher sex drive than you, your computers could be incompatible and your own hard drive could be open to viral infections.

 

I hope this gets resolved soon.

[Mitch]

I got so riled up and agry I was at a loss of words to write back.... What would you suggest I write?

Try "GET BENT", all caps.

 

Then, depending on your mail software, hit either block sender or its equivalent.